11-23-2014, 02:42 PM
(11-23-2014, 02:31 PM)sebastian Wrote: Not sure I can make it really clear. Since I was pretty much beta as we started to know each other she knew she "had me" somehow. And I am sure she thinks she still has to some degree. So if I don't tell her that I am not ok with what she has done then nothing will change. If I do she probably will go into drama mode. Hope it makes sense. Anyway, I think I should get some sleep soon, it's late here.
Hmm, well don't know what happened. I also don't know the best course of action. However, it has been my pleasure to experience the shift in a woman who has seen me as "beta/unimportant" to taking notice to me in a BIG way.
All that matters here is that if you are Alpha, she will notice. You don't have to tell her. IN FACT, talking about it is actually LESS likely to prove your case. Much like people who try to convince you of something, the more they try, the less you believe them.
So I take that into account when I see a girl is liking me less. I know it's only temporary. Additionally, I look at my behaviors that seem to have led to such an assumption, and learn to fix them.
