11-23-2014, 12:56 PM
(This post was last modified: 11-23-2014, 01:06 PM by SargeMaximus.)
(11-23-2014, 12:36 PM)sebastian Wrote: Well, in the past I didn't set any boundaries and I didn't let her know where I am. So she didn't know for sure where I am and what I am thinking. That's why I think I should tell her.
Well it depends again on the situation. Not sure what yours is (didn't read it if you posted it?) but Blackdragon sums it up quite nicely here: http://www.blackdragonblog.com/2014/06/0...ems-drama/
EDIT: Generally, if you're telling a woman something to try and change her, it's a bad idea. Just like acting nice to try and "catch her".
EDIT 2: Found a golden nugget from the BD:
"The ideal solution is to let her tell you whatever she likes and to not care. But if you’re not there yet, sure, you could tell her that you would appreciate it if she kept her other activities to herself (just realize by doing that you’ve entered into Alpha Male 1.0 territory and lost a little frame with her, because she knows she “got” you a little). Again though, the problem is not her, it’s you."
