11-23-2014, 12:36 PM
(11-23-2014, 12:06 PM)SargeMaximus Wrote: I'm not sure what you mean. If you're saying you should let her know where you stand, that's a good idea so long as it's warranted. I mean, if a girl says to me "Hey, let's go here" and I don't want to, I'll tell her, but if she says "I like this" and I don't, I won't feel any need to say anything unless I want to.
In those situations, I just see it as the person sharing part of themselves with me, not an attack that I need to "defend my boundaries" against.
Well, in the past I didn't set any boundaries and I didn't let her know where I am. So she didn't know for sure where I am and what I am thinking. That's why I think I should tell her.
