09-11-2017, 03:38 PM
(09-11-2017, 01:43 PM)Daredevil Wrote: You should focus on building yourself up first so that you don't attract a damaged girl who reflects you
With all due respect I disagree. There has been a circulating rumor on this site that you should "Improve" yourself with other subs before you run a AYP. Ironically the rumor is regurgitated by many people who haven't even run AYP programs before. Shannon himself confirmed that your perfect lover will meet you wherever you are at, and since they are perfect their situation and many other factors will alighn with yours to make it work.
Fonzy manifested a perfect submissive sexual lover that he ended up having a long term and romantic relationship with. I feel like this rumor of "don't ever touch an AYP until you "improve yourself" is damaging to the community in the sense that everybody is NEVER going to be ready. Everybody is jumping from sub to sub looking for the next best thing, and they will never have space to come across to the AYP they always wanted to run.
As a result there are almost no reports of AYP's because people are too busy "improving themselves". I am going to complete this AYP if it's the last thing I do, and I will have a success story to report back to this site. After all it has been 8 long months. A perfect lover who alights to my situation is what I really feel I want and deserve right now, and that's why I chose to run this instead of something like DMSI which I did purchase...
