10-10-2010, 04:04 AM
(This post was last modified: 10-10-2010, 04:06 AM by ManOfElectricity.)
Thanks for sending those video links guys. Yeah Robbie Williams is great in those videos. He is so open, warm and peace with himself and where he is. I can also see how loving and caring he is towards his audience.
I've just started stage 4 of the Alpha male set yesterday.
Something has definitely changed in the last week. Not too long ago I was going through a phase of extreme rage, it was like my brain was remembering times where I was being judged for something or when people assumed things about me that weren't true, or sometimes I would think about possible situations in the future where people would judge me or assume things about me.
In the last week those feelings of rage have being replaced with a feeling of compassion. I'm also starting to notice that I'm having an easier time calming myself down when I get upset, like I can think more rationally and disconnect from feelings of negatively a lot more easily.
I did have a lot of turmoil and pain and had I known how much I was going to go through I might have gone with different subs (like overcome anxiety). However, having gotten this far I think I can manage the remaining three stages, especially after the positive emotional changes that are going on.
I have noticed positive responses from women in general and I'm getting along great with my girlfriend. Sometimes I notice women staring at me when I look out the corner of my eye. Other women laugh and act silly around me, like last week sometime I was at a pub and the woman serving me beer was just giggling and being feminine around me. I feel a lot less needy now and it's nice to go out and just relax without needing anything to happen. I feel like I automatically give women more space.
In a lot of situations I tend to say what I want to say but in a nice way, like the other night I was telling my girlfriend that I've always being the kind of person the needed my own space every once in a while I needed to be my own. It wasn't because of anything she had done, it just came up in conversation but I was able to be very honest but at the time made sure that it was not about her in anyway. She is strong emotionally, very supportive and she also loves to have time to herself so she completely understood but at the same time I was surprised about my ability to just communicate what I need but in such a considerate way.
I'm being a bit easier on myself and kinder to myself to. I'm starting to understand that I have needs and it's ok for me to go about getting what I want. For example, in the last couple years I have being working way too hard. I've tended to take on way too much work out of a feeling of obligation. This last month I've actually being blessed with some awesome projects that I felt really privileged to work on but I was starting to get dangerously burnt out. I finally got some down time this last week but I was so tired I could hardly think straight. However, not only am I recovering and getting my energy back, I'm also talking steps to make dam sure that I don't get burnt out anymore. It's great to do work I love but it's not worth sacrificing my physical and emotional health over.
The only thing is that although I love having time of I'm starting to feel really stir crazy. I don't feel like I have a life plan at the moment and although I just need to take some time to figure things out it's kind of scary not knowing what I'm going to to be doing with my life. I feel a bit lost at the moment and it's freaking me out a bit but I think that ultimately things will turn out for the best.
I'm starting to realise that sometimes there is inertia and there is momentum that needs to build up. When I was going through my over work phase a couple weeks ago I put everything else on hold until the work was done. Naturally when I stopped I was exhausted and it's only today that I'm finally starting to get into a routine I wanted but ultimately I had to be patient with myself. I have to make sure that I don't overwhelm and overload myself again.
I've being reading Double Your Dating. It's being a while since I read it and it is a great book. I can't wait to check out How To Become An Alpha Male.
I've just started stage 4 of the Alpha male set yesterday.
Something has definitely changed in the last week. Not too long ago I was going through a phase of extreme rage, it was like my brain was remembering times where I was being judged for something or when people assumed things about me that weren't true, or sometimes I would think about possible situations in the future where people would judge me or assume things about me.
In the last week those feelings of rage have being replaced with a feeling of compassion. I'm also starting to notice that I'm having an easier time calming myself down when I get upset, like I can think more rationally and disconnect from feelings of negatively a lot more easily.
I did have a lot of turmoil and pain and had I known how much I was going to go through I might have gone with different subs (like overcome anxiety). However, having gotten this far I think I can manage the remaining three stages, especially after the positive emotional changes that are going on.
I have noticed positive responses from women in general and I'm getting along great with my girlfriend. Sometimes I notice women staring at me when I look out the corner of my eye. Other women laugh and act silly around me, like last week sometime I was at a pub and the woman serving me beer was just giggling and being feminine around me. I feel a lot less needy now and it's nice to go out and just relax without needing anything to happen. I feel like I automatically give women more space.
In a lot of situations I tend to say what I want to say but in a nice way, like the other night I was telling my girlfriend that I've always being the kind of person the needed my own space every once in a while I needed to be my own. It wasn't because of anything she had done, it just came up in conversation but I was able to be very honest but at the time made sure that it was not about her in anyway. She is strong emotionally, very supportive and she also loves to have time to herself so she completely understood but at the same time I was surprised about my ability to just communicate what I need but in such a considerate way.
I'm being a bit easier on myself and kinder to myself to. I'm starting to understand that I have needs and it's ok for me to go about getting what I want. For example, in the last couple years I have being working way too hard. I've tended to take on way too much work out of a feeling of obligation. This last month I've actually being blessed with some awesome projects that I felt really privileged to work on but I was starting to get dangerously burnt out. I finally got some down time this last week but I was so tired I could hardly think straight. However, not only am I recovering and getting my energy back, I'm also talking steps to make dam sure that I don't get burnt out anymore. It's great to do work I love but it's not worth sacrificing my physical and emotional health over.
The only thing is that although I love having time of I'm starting to feel really stir crazy. I don't feel like I have a life plan at the moment and although I just need to take some time to figure things out it's kind of scary not knowing what I'm going to to be doing with my life. I feel a bit lost at the moment and it's freaking me out a bit but I think that ultimately things will turn out for the best.
I'm starting to realise that sometimes there is inertia and there is momentum that needs to build up. When I was going through my over work phase a couple weeks ago I put everything else on hold until the work was done. Naturally when I stopped I was exhausted and it's only today that I'm finally starting to get into a routine I wanted but ultimately I had to be patient with myself. I have to make sure that I don't overwhelm and overload myself again.
I've being reading Double Your Dating. It's being a while since I read it and it is a great book. I can't wait to check out How To Become An Alpha Male.
