(12-31-2017, 07:43 AM)Shannon Wrote: Telling the second chick that your date flaked as a prelude is, in female-speak, telling her, "You aren't my first choice to hang out with, but since I can't hang with who I really want to hang with, you'll do."
Very bad approach. Telling a woman you're dating others is one thing. Telling her she's an acceptable substitute for who you really wanted to spend time with is bad juju.
You may be right but in this situation it worked. I wasn't rude about it i was just being honest. Honesty is good isn't it? I didn't go into details until she asked me about it. I just mentioned ""I think my date is flaking
Oh and I say it worked, because I ended up talking to her through text throughout the day and building more of a connection and she seems eager to go out with me in the future.
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I'll definitely take your advice into consideration and reconsider my approach next time.
