02-11-2011, 04:14 PM
(02-10-2011, 03:04 PM)RainbowAbyss Wrote: Because in my opinion the root of the male problem is twofold
Fear of failure-so one never tries
And secondly believing power is through controlling external circumstances
Rather than the inner power that comes from breaking inner perceptual barriers
Which leads to more fulfillment and success-by taking action in the face of fear.
Even with the Alpha sub I have learned that I can be cool and indifferent as it comes but if Im not facing and pushing areas that I have been uncomftorable or afraid in while moving towards what I want in life, my lifes gonna stay the same, I love my life, so that's not bad, but I also wanna stay moving foward on purpose. Seek the challenge has helped tremendously
with just doing what I need to do, to take my life foward and therefore feel totally not held back, hiding behind
fear or apathy, I still fall short alot but Im getting way better.
The root of male insecurity is feeling trapped, not free, held in by fear or the illusion of some external factor, seek the challenge has helped
me break through many little areas of feeling held back and not free, into more inner
freedom.
Cortez, what has carpe diem done for u? I alway really want to do it, but can't stay on it, the negatives seem to outweigh the pros for it for me, longest I was on it was two and a half weeks I believe.
The Carpe Diem sub definitely got me out of my head once it really sunk in. I don't think it was really all that negative now that I look back on it. It helped me to act without thinking which is a useful thing. I may try that seek the challenge out and see if I like it.
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