Oversoul UMS

[ncbeareatingman]

True.

How would you deal with the people that hit on you when they are secretly committed? Or even if they are committed but claim to be unfulfilled or unsatisfied (though in their boyfriend's/girlfriend's face they act like everything's great?

If they'll do it with their partner, they'll do it with you. It's their pattern,Its their shit to heal or not. It's a choice.
 Is this question based on how guilty you will feel if you cross that line or something else??? There other ways to git laid quickly if thats all ur after.what is the underlying theme here? Attention,to be appreciated? None of the abouve?

I agree with you that theyll do it to me. TBH I would not keep them. As you said it would just be sexual in nature.

But the thing is I would not know until after I had sex with them that they have a boyfriend. Does that take responsibility off of me?

If I was to seduce a 'taken' girl, it would probably be out of pride and arrogance more than anything. Also maybe as a challenge or just 'because I can and it feels good knowing I can'. But then again, I dont feel like I need to do that anymore, I'm growing out of it. Could be because I am looking for SMV validation (sexual market value validation) from them. But as I said, I don't do it anymore.

 Understood and respect Oversoul !! I appreciate your kindness and pateince with me. in short thank you for not being defensive about it,as in no harm was meant at all and thank you for being cool about it all, translation =not being an A-hole about it. not that you were at all,not at all. just thank you. theres soooo sooo many people on the planet that could be such, about it all. have great weekend OverSoul,.I think you're a greart guy.have fun. Keith.

[Paul1131]

True.

How would you deal with the people that hit on you when they are secretly committed? Or even if they are committed but claim to be unfulfilled or unsatisfied (though in their boyfriend's/girlfriend's face they act like everything's great?

If they'll do it with their partner, they'll do it with you. It's their pattern,Its their shit to heal or not. It's a choice.
 Is this question based on how guilty you will feel if you cross that line or something else??? There other ways to git laid quickly if thats all ur after.what is the underlying theme here? Attention,to be appreciated? None of the abouve?

I agree with you that theyll do it to me. TBH I would not keep them. As you said it would just be sexual in nature.

But the thing is I would not know until after I had sex with them that they have a boyfriend. Does that take responsibility off of me?

If I was to seduce a 'taken' girl, it would probably be out of pride and arrogance more than anything. Also maybe as a challenge or just 'because I can and it feels good knowing I can'. But then again, I dont feel like I need to do that anymore, I'm growing out of it. Could be because I am looking for SMV validation (sexual market value validation) from them. But as I said, I don't do it anymore.

Ok, if you don’t know she’s taken, you have no responsibility whatsoever unless there’s some blatant sign (like a wedding ring) that you should have picked up on and didn’t look for.  If that happens it’s on her.  But.  It’s a good idea for your personal safety to try to make sure that it doesn’t happen.  I wound up in a really nasty fight in college because I didn’t know the woman I was hooking up with was married.

[Shannon]

True.

How would you deal with the people that hit on you when they are secretly committed? Or even if they are committed but claim to be unfulfilled or unsatisfied (though in their boyfriend's/girlfriend's face they act like everything's great?

If they'll do it with their partner, they'll do it with you. It's their pattern,Its their shit to heal or not. It's a choice.
 Is this question based on how guilty you will feel if you cross that line or something else??? There other ways to git laid quickly if thats all ur after.what is the underlying theme here? Attention,to be appreciated? None of the abouve?

I agree with you that theyll do it to me. TBH I would not keep them. As you said it would just be sexual in nature.

But the thing is I would not know until after I had sex with them that they have a boyfriend. Does that take responsibility off of me?

If I was to seduce a 'taken' girl, it would probably be out of pride and arrogance more than anything. Also maybe as a challenge or just 'because I can and it feels good knowing I can'. But then again, I dont feel like I need to do that anymore, I'm growing out of it. Could be because I am looking for SMV validation (sexual market value validation) from them. But as I said, I don't do it anymore.

Ok, if you don’t know she’s taken, you have no responsibility whatsoever unless there’s some blatant sign (like a wedding ring) that you should have picked up on and didn’t look for.  If that happens it’s on her.  But.  It’s a good idea for your personal safety to try to make sure that it doesn’t happen.  I wound up in a really nasty fight in college because I didn’t know the woman I was hooking up with was married.

It is your responsibility to do your due diligence.  If there is no ring, ask if she is involved.  Ask people who know her if she is married or involved.  Beyond that, not much you can do.

[Oversoul]

Lol understood everyone (@Shannon ,@Paul1131 @"), thanks for your perspectives. Yes, its best to do due diligence, though I can't take responsibility if a woman lies about being single, as its her responsibility as shes the one whos supposed to be loyal to the guy.

@ncbeareatingman I didn't see your response as aggressive in any way, it's all good. I enjoy it when people ask me why I do things as it makes me introspect.

Regarding UMS, people treating me nicer, in a different way to DMSI. I think more socially acceptable? On DMSI, it was someone attractive but not as socially acceptable, maybe because the aura was so sexual and not 'proper'. IDK

Im loosing my worries about money, and my worries about business. Im doing less in business but IM more relaxed and
more comfortable than before in regards to success. I dont feel like the money from my business is enough for me (it can potentially make 250k a year if done properly with just me- and yet that seems like chump change?). I think playing the lottery of millions and imagining myself winning is making me feel like that.

I also dont feel internally pressured or stressed when doing nothing. Its a nice change, I was always feeling pressured or anxious when I was doing nothing. Not anymore now.

external results regarding money- none as of yet. But this quiet confidence and lack of anxiety is probably the first step. I feel wealthy.

PS> I have figured out how my father can retire while making 10k a month in passive income in the next 3 years.He has bought into my idea and we'll set the plan in motion within a couple of weeks. We have already spoken to the relevant people regarding this and its definitely practical and do-able. PS, he is not rich, if anything, I have seen him struggle with money all his life. He will be start by investing money from his pension pot into this.

[Oversoul]

P.S, Goals:

https://www.moulin.nl/en/realestate/chat...dy_147880/

Always wanted to own a vineyard and make my own wine. Id convert it into one.

[Oversoul]

Im more focused on helping my dad make money than me right now. Im not complaining, it feels right. And its good, I can see him hit walls of fear and looking to me for courage.

[ncbeareatingman]

Im more focused on helping my dad make money than me right now. Im not complaining, it feels right. And its good, I can see him hit walls of fear and looking to me for courage.

You're so awesome Oversoul!! Go Dad!!

[Oversoul]

Haha thanks @ncbeareatingman

This sub is demanding, slept for 14 hours and the only way I even knew what time I fel asleep was by looking at what time the battery on my laptop finished and taking an hour off of it. Damn.

Woke up feeling genuinely fearless like never before tho. And IDK if its through a dream or through random intuition, but something tells me people will feel this fearlessness off me too.

[Oversoul]

People seem to be so slow because of overthinking, fear, not trusting their own judgement, not trusting their own decisions, listening to a whole lot of below average advisors etc.

Really think I should buy my dad a copy of UMS. But knowing him, hell probably think its a fad and laugh it off, and never use it...

[PDjunkie]

Great how you're caring for your dad like that. keep up the good work! and yeah sleep is so important on this, I sleep for ages..

[Oversoul]

Thank @PDjunkie appreciate it. I've been keeping up with your journal, Im happy to see that you you seem to be doing well and making progress too.

I 'accidently' did like 10 loops today (was left on a repeat loop on ultrasonic by accident, and I was on the computer for the whole day). Let see what happens.

[PDjunkie]

Thank @PDjunkie appreciate it. I've been keeping up with your journal, Im happy to see that you you seem to be doing well and making progress too.

I 'accidently' did like 10 loops today (was left on a repeat loop on ultrasonic by accident, and I was on the computer for the whole day). Let see what happens.

Jeez your loops are crazy, millions coming your way

[Oversoul]

Thank @PDjunkie appreciate it. I've been keeping up with your journal, Im happy to see that you you seem to be doing well and making progress too.

I 'accidently' did like 10 loops today (was left on a repeat loop on ultrasonic by accident, and I was on the computer for the whole day). Let see what happens.

Jeez your loops are crazy, millions coming your way

Haha fingers crossed.

I'm doing as many loops as I can per day as I am not getting any turbulence and it feels correct to do so. So far, I have done 3 today. Will probably end up doing 10 again.

[Oversoul]

Donno why but girls seem to be seeking eye contact with me probably more than on DMSI. Not as much blatent lust as on DMSI though.

Funnily enough, i just break eye contact in a 'idc' manner, which seems to make them wanna chase