(07-12-2017, 09:30 AM)Mr. Anderson Wrote: So if I get this right, in this case it would be good to be persistent as long you see the door still open and back off when notice that the door closes. The hardest thing is probably to see if the door is still open or already closed if you don't have that much experience.
Well it is more a mindset. Imagine yourself living in sexual abundance. If a girl say no to your advance. You persist a bit but then if it doesn't go where you want. You respect her resistance say goodbye and go spend time with women that are more than happy to share intimacy with you and you let the resisting one chase you when she realize she is starting to lose your interest.
Some guys, when they are getting really close to having sex with a girl, because they start becoming very horny, they stop thinking straight.They lose their solid frame. Having sex instead of being a desire becomes a need. they start acting desperate by thinking things like if I persist to stimulate her, I may make her horny enough to say yes.
This is normal reaction but to become good you need to overcome these instinctive reactions.
The key is to keep your coolness and act like a boss all the way. If you are able to hold the frame that you are the prize and she tries to win you over. You love sexual women and not sure yet if she is good enough for you, you'll become a local pimp with your DMSI investment.
If you were living in sexual abundance. What would you do with a girl saying no? Having a vivid visualization of how it would feel is the answer of what to do next time...
EDIT: but there is a funny thing. When you are living in sexual abundance. You subconsciously communicate your expectations to others and they will comply to them and you will get less resistance. I suspect this is one of the thing that DMSI set for you. There is a paradox in that...