(08-22-2012, 09:24 AM)massagemaggie Wrote: I have had huge success from online dating.
Sounds like it would be a very marketable sub, or program even though other ones should have the same effect, secondarily. Things like alpha male and various self esteem programs. However, I imagine a lot of people want a quick fix solution to get girls to respond, rather than to fundamentally attract women who are actually interested in them as a person. In one way it is a numbers game, but it does not take many people to have a varied, busy and highly satisfying dating and sex life. It just takes some of the right kinds, and more than that is a waste of time and typing.
re: being interesting and charismatic -- you can't really fake it and make women somehow see it, you just have to BE it.
I've noticed the vast majority of messages are just not in my league.
"hey whats up?"
sometimes they'll extend it to "your so sexy, want to chat?"
"wow you are so beautiful, i love your pic, are those real?"
There are mass ones that have obviously been pasted have have nothing to do with my profile or desires. And of course the profiles and pictures themselves.
Not looking for a guy posing topless, or who does not have the self esteem to write something about himself in his profile.
"well im not really good at talking about myself"
"my friends say...."
If you're not on the ball enough to create a profile there is not going to be much success, period.
Every woman is looking for something else. I dismiss needy men loooking for validation, ones who make a fuss about how faithful they are right away, and ones looking for straight out sex.
Men need to know what they're looking for (hot girls to date casually? to F$#? to have a relationship with? marriage?) and then go after it definitively. They're usually too busy whining about how they can't get laid to even be focused on what they do want and allow it to happen.
I recently moved to Canada, put an ad out in the platonic section of Craigslist looking for someone to hang out with and have pints, good conversation, and maybe bike rides or walks.
Only one out of about 100 responses was intelligent and well thought out. I responded to him alone, we met immediately and his actual intelligence and charisma succeeded in making sure I was open to him in many ways. No time wasting or idiocy.
Hi Maggie . You are beautiful ( and i'm going to assume that they are real
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