OFv3 - Only I will Remain...Reloaded

[NOMAD]

Day 120

This morning, I looked at the clock as I started (8:00). I looked at the clock when she couldn't take any more (8:06). That's a record for me. That wasn't me beating her to the finish line. That was her beating me, then giving me the option to either stop or finish. She was done. Six minutes.

I believe this to be both a direct and an indirect result of OFv3.

Long before I met my wife (going all the way back to my high school days), I always had the tendency to focus on the woman's pleasure. I wanted the woman to walk away from the experiencing thinking about how good I was in bed. Telling her/their friends was a side benefit that I've enjoyed a few times. The problem is that the root of that mindset was insecurity (fear). Because of that, I really didn't enjoy giving pleasure as I feared not giving pleasure. Fear takes a lot of fun out of the deed. OFv3 seems to have largely addressed that. This morning, I just enjoyed it. The result is that I pleasured her better than I could've done otherwise by just being in the moment without fear. Amazing. This is the direct result of OFv3 I mentioned.

I've been exercising regularly for about a month and a half. I lift twice a week doing compound barbell lifts and do HIIT cardio 5 days a week. Based on the facts that I'm slowly leaning out, I'm gaining more strength & stamina, and my little buddy below has been waking up before I do, I suspect that my hormonal balance is better than it was when I began. I'm at the age (over 40) where these things really do matter. OFv3 helped me to start a sensible exercise regimen without feeling the need to push myself to the brink of what I can manage. I'm also not going crazy with my diet. So, my new found sexual potency is probably boosted by my diet/exercise regimen, which was enabled by OFv3. This is the indirect effect of OFv3 I mentioned.

Dude I thank you for this post. I was with a girl tonight and things was getting stiff, I guess she was feeling that I was holding myself back. I came to think of this post and just started acting on what I felt doing in an intimate way, even doing things that I usually find is "being across the line" but she respondent totally different to that, and felt more free to express her desires. Awesome.

Excellent! I'm glad you found value in my post.