09-28-2017, 11:50 AM
(09-28-2017, 11:35 AM)SargeMaximus Wrote: The buffers one is big for sure too, tho I'm at the place now where I can see the buffers but need to know the way forward.
SP let's say I see a girl I want. I know I'm not talking to her because I don't know how to talk to her, but knowing that doesn't improve my convo skills, you get me?
That's my main sticking point ATM.
I get you man, but guess what... that's a buffer, haha. The buffer of perfectionism. You want to be bullet proof with your banter but that is actually counter productive because you'll fry her brain if you're too perfect.
Also.. what is said is almost unimportant compared to how it is said.
Just state why you're talking to her (wanted to say hello).. and continue as if someone introduced you..