03-27-2015, 08:35 PM
Day 22 or so stage 2
Went to a anniversary event for a nonprofit i work with
I wasn feeling very social, i only had one hour of sleep. Hung out with my boy mostly, talked money making
grabbed a drink from the bar, immediately started banteringwith the bartender. Cute black chick, i dont usually like black girls, but her energy was on point and a cute face too. We chatted a little here and there before she left without me seeing
as im leaving i see her at the gas station so i roll over, i spit some push/pull dumb shit, and grab the number. its so much about the way you say things and the enrgy you project than the actual content.
I've been doing an exercise, another jason capital one. He recommends opening a fresh word doc and starting with today's date. Imagine you're talking to a ebautiful woman and she's eating out the palm of your hand. Take 3 minutes and just write attraction material, like cocky funny, push pull, teasing, disqualification, stupid stories that show youre more about self amusement that gaining her approval
Everyday just take 3 minutes, and never stop typing. Just anything that comes to mind. The fact that it doesnt matter is what counts oddly enough
i noticed better thought process when talking to chicks within days. Just gotta understand how to speak the language of emotions. We as men are an adventure for women, we give them the joy of feeling a variety of emotions, but everything begins with us. Lead the interaction, be open to get her more open, and just be the man.
I was really planning on taking time to myself and just work on myself exclusively for some weeks, but I hadn't gotten any numbers in a while, and I could tell she was feeling me from our first talk.
Went to a anniversary event for a nonprofit i work with
I wasn feeling very social, i only had one hour of sleep. Hung out with my boy mostly, talked money making
grabbed a drink from the bar, immediately started banteringwith the bartender. Cute black chick, i dont usually like black girls, but her energy was on point and a cute face too. We chatted a little here and there before she left without me seeing
as im leaving i see her at the gas station so i roll over, i spit some push/pull dumb shit, and grab the number. its so much about the way you say things and the enrgy you project than the actual content.
I've been doing an exercise, another jason capital one. He recommends opening a fresh word doc and starting with today's date. Imagine you're talking to a ebautiful woman and she's eating out the palm of your hand. Take 3 minutes and just write attraction material, like cocky funny, push pull, teasing, disqualification, stupid stories that show youre more about self amusement that gaining her approval
Everyday just take 3 minutes, and never stop typing. Just anything that comes to mind. The fact that it doesnt matter is what counts oddly enough
i noticed better thought process when talking to chicks within days. Just gotta understand how to speak the language of emotions. We as men are an adventure for women, we give them the joy of feeling a variety of emotions, but everything begins with us. Lead the interaction, be open to get her more open, and just be the man.
I was really planning on taking time to myself and just work on myself exclusively for some weeks, but I hadn't gotten any numbers in a while, and I could tell she was feeling me from our first talk.