04-23-2015, 11:08 PM
There are different variables in play. There is the sub, which is a constant, and there is you, which is a unique dynamic variable. Of course there will be slightly different results.
AfzalG, I don't know how to read German, and my German skills are almost non-existent. I was studying the language for a short time, but found that I had to choose between productivity/sleep and learning, and I chose productivity and sleep. I was having to spend a minimum of 2-3 hours a day on it, and it was very exhausting. Hopefully at some point in the future I will be able to do more than ask where the bathroom is.
But, since I don't speak or read German well yet, I'll presume that you had "getting your rocks off" explained and understand it. But I will explain it regardless, just for the sake of clarity and completeness.
It's an English slang term that refers to having an orgasm. It implies that you are interested in having an orgasm, coming, ejaculating, and nothing else. That seems to be your focus: looks and sex. You mention that the more attractive women have better personalities, but then I have found the exact opposite to be largely true, although not universally. I have worked as a modeling photographer, and I have worked with a lot of extremely beautiful women. I think in all the time I did that I met maybe one who had a good personality. The rest were focused on money, their own egos, or both. I was not impressed, and eventually working with the women I was being required to work with got old and I moved on to a different area of photography.
The fact is, the more attractive a woman is, the more guys will train her to be a pain in the ass by telling her how beautiful she is and generally kissing her ass and allowing themselves to be walked on, which frequently gives the most beautiful women a big ego and an attitude to match. They also attract guys who only want sex, and will do and say anything to get it, and that damages them. They come to believe their only value is in their looks and between their legs, and they suffer a lot of emotional damage because of that. The general rule of thumb that results is that the higher a woman goes on the attractiveness scale, the more broken and crazy she is likely to be as a result.
I have dated and slept with women who ranged the gamut of looks, and I have found that the best quality and healthiest women can usually be found between "average" and "attractive, but not stunning" in looks. If all I wanted was a hot woman to impress someone with, I would go after the ones hotter than that. But I don't care who is impressed with the women I choose, and I would rather have women I can trust and who don't flip out on me, don't cheat on me, and who are worth more than a casual fuck.
I think the majority of the reason guys go after the 9's and 10's is because they want to impress some other guy(s). Not because they really care about how hot she is, or her. Take that out of the equation and you open yourself up to a lot of options that are easier to deal with and a lot less hassle in the long run.
I'm done with the hot ones who can't be trusted as far as I can throw them.
AfzalG, I don't know how to read German, and my German skills are almost non-existent. I was studying the language for a short time, but found that I had to choose between productivity/sleep and learning, and I chose productivity and sleep. I was having to spend a minimum of 2-3 hours a day on it, and it was very exhausting. Hopefully at some point in the future I will be able to do more than ask where the bathroom is.
But, since I don't speak or read German well yet, I'll presume that you had "getting your rocks off" explained and understand it. But I will explain it regardless, just for the sake of clarity and completeness.
It's an English slang term that refers to having an orgasm. It implies that you are interested in having an orgasm, coming, ejaculating, and nothing else. That seems to be your focus: looks and sex. You mention that the more attractive women have better personalities, but then I have found the exact opposite to be largely true, although not universally. I have worked as a modeling photographer, and I have worked with a lot of extremely beautiful women. I think in all the time I did that I met maybe one who had a good personality. The rest were focused on money, their own egos, or both. I was not impressed, and eventually working with the women I was being required to work with got old and I moved on to a different area of photography.
The fact is, the more attractive a woman is, the more guys will train her to be a pain in the ass by telling her how beautiful she is and generally kissing her ass and allowing themselves to be walked on, which frequently gives the most beautiful women a big ego and an attitude to match. They also attract guys who only want sex, and will do and say anything to get it, and that damages them. They come to believe their only value is in their looks and between their legs, and they suffer a lot of emotional damage because of that. The general rule of thumb that results is that the higher a woman goes on the attractiveness scale, the more broken and crazy she is likely to be as a result.
I have dated and slept with women who ranged the gamut of looks, and I have found that the best quality and healthiest women can usually be found between "average" and "attractive, but not stunning" in looks. If all I wanted was a hot woman to impress someone with, I would go after the ones hotter than that. But I don't care who is impressed with the women I choose, and I would rather have women I can trust and who don't flip out on me, don't cheat on me, and who are worth more than a casual fuck.
I think the majority of the reason guys go after the 9's and 10's is because they want to impress some other guy(s). Not because they really care about how hot she is, or her. Take that out of the equation and you open yourself up to a lot of options that are easier to deal with and a lot less hassle in the long run.
I'm done with the hot ones who can't be trusted as far as I can throw them.
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The scientist has a question to find an answer for. The pseudo-scientist has an answer to find a question for. ~ "Failure is the path of least persistence." - Chinese Fortune Cookie ~ Logic left. Emotion right. But thinking, straight ahead. ~ Sperate supra omnia in valorem. (The value of trust is above all else.) ~ Meowsomeness!
