09-26-2015, 02:55 AM
I get that.
For parents, no matter what age u are, u r still a kid from them. They always want to protect you.
And this feeling is a lot lot more if it's Indian.
I am an Indian too. But i have these special lovely parents who are like, 'do what you want, we are there to back you up'
They don't enforce themselves on me. The case is different on most of my other frnds. They always grudge about me being lucky.
But what I tell to them, I'll tell u to.
They are over protective cos they care.
Talk to them. Ask them to let you be independent. If not for life time, atleast for some time-frame, say 2-3 years, where you can prove yourself.
No need to leave them completely, but renting an apartment next to yours current or atleast in the neighborhood can be a good idea. All you need to do is talk to them once and be serious and positive enough to convince them. For Indian or any parent, nothings more important than their child and his/her happines.
For parents, no matter what age u are, u r still a kid from them. They always want to protect you.
And this feeling is a lot lot more if it's Indian.
I am an Indian too. But i have these special lovely parents who are like, 'do what you want, we are there to back you up'
They don't enforce themselves on me. The case is different on most of my other frnds. They always grudge about me being lucky.
But what I tell to them, I'll tell u to.
They are over protective cos they care.
Talk to them. Ask them to let you be independent. If not for life time, atleast for some time-frame, say 2-3 years, where you can prove yourself.
No need to leave them completely, but renting an apartment next to yours current or atleast in the neighborhood can be a good idea. All you need to do is talk to them once and be serious and positive enough to convince them. For Indian or any parent, nothings more important than their child and his/her happines.
