12-20-2017, 06:11 AM
(12-20-2017, 05:21 AM)Determined Wrote: I've been there too being the "bad guy". We rationalise within ourselves that "ok they're angry/pissed off/annoyed [insert emotion] there must be a reason why and we probably are part of that reason".
The problem with that train of thought is that we end up enabling them which only perpetuates the cycle.
Relationships are two way streets, if she isn't willing to work on it then you have to be willing to walk away. .
On point again. I recognize myself in this and have worked on breaking that habit with some internal peace as a result. Peoples emotional states are most often their own problems and own responsibilities. Often, if not always.
