04-20-2018, 09:48 AM
(04-20-2018, 09:31 AM)SargeMaximus Wrote:(04-20-2018, 08:52 AM)Determined Wrote:(04-20-2018, 06:53 AM)SargeMaximus Wrote:(04-20-2018, 06:08 AM)Determined Wrote:(04-20-2018, 05:49 AM)SargeMaximus Wrote: Sounds like friendzone to me. No offense.
There is no such thing as a premature move.
I literally nearly had a single night lay from a first date with a woman I never met before this past Tuesday.
Only thing was she wouldn't be persuaded to let me inside her apartment. But there was heavy sexual grabbing and kissing and talking dirty from both of us.
So, I think in your case, you may be taking things too slow and not being sexual enough.
In my case, I need to learn how to overcome ASD/LMR better.
What are you saying here? Are you saying DMSI can't overcome this shit and we should just go with the way things are by becoming seducers?
No, I'm saying we should accept the world as it is and hope to influence it rather than force outcomes.
The truth is, most people are reluctant to execute DMSI because they don't want to be in the spotlight or they don't want to be annoyed by hordes of women which is counter to the celebrity effect.
I see, and I agree with you.
Influence is fascinating, and I love it. I don't nearly have the level I want, however.
I've wondered if the value we have isn't high enough yet, and if the pain/consequence for NOT sleeping with us is high enough as well.
I believe people need a carrot AND a stick to be moved, but the stick is always more important. Tony Robbins says that people will take action to avoid pain more readily than to gain pleasure.
Carrot and Stick, it doesn't matter. If the user is ready, they'll execute.
I was talking about the affected.
Same goes for the affected. You can't force anyone to do anything. They have to make the choice, free will prevails.