04-12-2016, 06:26 PM
Day 37
I thought I give an update since it is long over due. At work the other day, I made a comment that was sexual in nature. Which I was not even trying to make it sexual in nature, it just came out that way. What I said to her was in response to what she was doing at the time. Well, the other person who was there, heard what I said, he was laughing his a$$ off for a good 10 minutes.
She was not upset at all, which surprised me. Now today when I saw her, she made some more sexual remarks about what I said to her while laughing at me. This was happening in front of another co-worker who was not aware what she meant by the jokes. When this was happening, I was just playing it cool trying not to say too much to her. Just watching what I say in the work force, because some women might take it the wrong way and then you can get fired for sexual harassment. But I just smiled and playing it nonchalant, while trying not to laugh at the same time.
I have noticed that I am standing up for what I believe in and calling people out on their BS that comes my way. Most of the time I just brush it aside, because they're not even worth my time or effort. I also feel a overall contentment, happy, some times just carefree not giving a care about anything sometimes.
I thought I give an update since it is long over due. At work the other day, I made a comment that was sexual in nature. Which I was not even trying to make it sexual in nature, it just came out that way. What I said to her was in response to what she was doing at the time. Well, the other person who was there, heard what I said, he was laughing his a$$ off for a good 10 minutes.
She was not upset at all, which surprised me. Now today when I saw her, she made some more sexual remarks about what I said to her while laughing at me. This was happening in front of another co-worker who was not aware what she meant by the jokes. When this was happening, I was just playing it cool trying not to say too much to her. Just watching what I say in the work force, because some women might take it the wrong way and then you can get fired for sexual harassment. But I just smiled and playing it nonchalant, while trying not to laugh at the same time.
I have noticed that I am standing up for what I believe in and calling people out on their BS that comes my way. Most of the time I just brush it aside, because they're not even worth my time or effort. I also feel a overall contentment, happy, some times just carefree not giving a care about anything sometimes.