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SargeMaximus: Blooming to Alpha
10-28-2017, 11:25 AM
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Heh, the title seems gay to me. :o

But I thought it fit since I'm in DMSI bloom and I'm using AM.

A few notables so far:

- Had a wet dream last night. I was f*cking that russian girl from Denny's. My boss was there (who is also russian). I'm not sure if he was participating or just watching. Anyhow, while f*cking the girl I began to get worried she just wanted sex with me to get pregnant. I came inside her and was panicked, but when I pulled out I was wearing a condom, so I got relieved. But then some of the cum dripped out the back and onto the carpet. So I told my boss to hold her hands down while I cleaned up.

- Went to do sales this morning and couldn't justify it. I feel like I'm doing something very wrong which is rediculous, but that's how I feel.

- On the way home I went out to approach girls but couldn't. My confidence is gone.

- Driving, a cop car began following me. I lost him when I turned at a yellow light but he didn't. This is a common thing for me on AM. I can remember police always being around. I didn't think AM would kick in so fast, maybe it's just coincidence.

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10-28-2017, 12:48 PM
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RE: SargeMaximus: Blooming to Alpha
Went to the gym today because I only did 3/4 of my workouts last week.

The energy was completely different in there. Very fresh, alive, bustling, and electric.

The woman at the front who took my keys said "I LOVE your superman thing. I have one just like it, but it's pink." I said "Thank you!" and she laughed. I then added "You'll have to show me sometime."

No idea if that was a good thing to say or not but meh.

Then there was a hot blonde working out. I stared at her butt as she did squats and I'm sure she saw me. Then she came over to work out near me but it was weird because it was like "oh man, I have to be social with her now" and I shut down. Lost my desire and she ended up crossing her arms. Very interesting.

I swear being social kills any edge or magnetism I have.

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10-28-2017, 04:06 PM
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RE: SargeMaximus: Blooming to Alpha
I fully assume this is all placebo, however, definitely feeling some different feelings today. Better, more pure and empowering.

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10-28-2017, 05:51 PM
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RE: SargeMaximus: Blooming to Alpha
Are you using AM now? refresher stage or stage 1?
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10-28-2017, 09:11 PM
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RE: SargeMaximus: Blooming to Alpha
Yeah refresher. I'll give it a few weeks. If externals improve, I'll run AM 6 from stage 1 again. If not, I'll go back on DMSI.

This is mostly just to shake things up and (hopefully) improve my sales performance which has been shit ever since I started DMSI.

ION, went out to approach girls tonight.
I went out later than I wanted to so I didn't really come across many girls. There were 2 that I considered:

- First girl was a skinny asian milf. Very cute, good style. She was looking at some baked goods in walmart. So I went to the shelf, and started looking at what was there with the intent of performing the "hover". Well, she left almost immediately. I thought she may come back and so I stuck around, but no.

- The second girl was VERY hot. Like 8/10. Unfortunately, she was browsing the "baby food" section so I decided not to even attempt a hover with her. I don't want to go after married women (till I'm good) or women with kids/babies.

So yeah, that was that.

Aside from that, my anxiety was pretty high with that 8/10 girl. The thought of hovering near her was very aggravating.

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10-30-2017, 08:12 AM
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RE: SargeMaximus: Blooming to Alpha
I'm really noticing other people's quirks/idiosyncracies these days.

I was watching a movie with my brother yesterday and he would laugh hysterically at parts I didn't think were funny. I was thinking "He's never been like this before". Same when I hung out with my cousin. It's like I'm not on the same page as people anymore but I used to be (or thought I was).

No idea if this is a good or bad thing.

Also, this morning as I was getting ready in the bathroom, I noticed how terrible my body looked. For a moment I thought I was sickly, like a starving POW. It was crazy. The lack of DMSI's reality shifting? Who knows. But then afterward I thought I looked ok. It was a real shock tho.

I'm getting more and more nervous about sales. I guess that's a good sign. I've often done well when I was nervous. We'll see how today goes.

Lastly, been having long and in-depth dreams. I won't go into details however.

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10-30-2017, 10:35 AM
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Quote:Also, this morning as I was getting ready in the bathroom, I noticed how terrible my body looked. For a moment I thought I was sickly, like a starving POW. It was crazy. The lack of DMSI's reality shifting? Who knows. But then afterward I thought I looked ok. It was a real shock tho.
Happens to me all the time. Sometimes I looks like 5. Sometimes 7...
Sometimes I feel like bipolar so much that my mood and/or beliefs about myself swing very frequently.

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10-30-2017, 12:41 PM
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(10-30-2017 10:35 AM)Plouf Wrote:  
Quote:Also, this morning as I was getting ready in the bathroom, I noticed how terrible my body looked. For a moment I thought I was sickly, like a starving POW. It was crazy. The lack of DMSI's reality shifting? Who knows. But then afterward I thought I looked ok. It was a real shock tho.
Happens to me all the time. Sometimes I looks like 5. Sometimes 7...
Sometimes I feel like bipolar so much that my mood and/or beliefs about myself swing very frequently.

Crazy man. Yeah it's definitely hard on the ol' psyche.

Motivates me to hit the gym more intelligently tho, so I can remove all doubt.

ION approached a solid 8/10 today. Perfect approach but she gave me a very creative version of "I have a boyfriend". It didn't go anywhere.

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10-31-2017, 09:48 AM
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Had more crazy and long/vivid dreams.

E.T. is back. For those of you who don't know, I was deathly afraid of E.T. from around my 5th year alive to 25 years old.

I overcame the fear by making myself watch the movie under the same conditions as when I first watched it, effectively bringing up all the fear that had been associated to the character/movie. I felt like I was going to die of a hearty attack but kept watching, telling myself it would be better to die facing my fear than live in terror.

Since then my fear is gone, and when I watch the movie, the parts that used to scare me, send endorphins through my body. It's quite the experience.

So anyhow, that's the backstory.

The dream I had last night was about showing me different versions of E.T. I think they were supposedly getting more scary as the dream went on, but I never felt fear, nor did I wake up in terror like I used to before I conquered the fear.

The next stage of this I suppose is tio find out WHY I was afraid of it, and what it means for me psychologically.

Other than that, it's Halloween so I won't be knocking doors for obvious reasons.

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10-31-2017, 10:38 AM
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(10-31-2017 09:48 AM)SargeMaximus Wrote:  Other than that, it's Halloween so I won't be knocking doors for obvious reasons.

Haha, you could try the "trick or treat" approach.

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10-31-2017, 02:30 PM
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RE: SargeMaximus: Blooming to Alpha
Lol, I actually tried that a while ago. I said "Trick or treat" and the woman was like "I think I'd prefer a trick" lol. Maybe it's a good ice breaker, I dunno.

It's raining today tho so no D2D anyways.

ION, one of my leads got sold. It was a small one but it's better than nothing. I definitely feel like I'm losing standing in the company because of my lack of numbers, which is valid, but their lack of selling is also an issue. The whole thing is just f*cked up. The only thing I can do is try to be the best I can be. Regardless, tomorrow I'm looking for another job so that I have one for when my contract expires.

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10-31-2017, 03:19 PM
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RE: SargeMaximus: Blooming to Alpha
Also you have to dress up as something for more sales! Tongue
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10-31-2017, 03:37 PM
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(10-31-2017 03:19 PM)Benjamin Wrote:  Also you have to dress up as something for more sales! Tongue

True. Maybe I could dress up as a con man. XD

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10-31-2017, 03:48 PM
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Hahaha
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11-01-2017, 09:28 PM
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RE: SargeMaximus: Blooming to Alpha
Reading Grant Cardone's "If You're Not First, You're Last". Damn good book so far. All about how to be the best and leave your competition in the dust, never settling, all that good stuff.

It makes me think Shannon may want to re-think how he makes subs and what they accomplish. I don't know how much he's changed them, but years ago I remember him telling me that one could get the rewards of being an alpha (for example) without having to get to that position in real life. Like it was the beliefs that caused everyone around them to make them alpha.

I'm uncomfortable with this. I'd rather be a TRUE alpha and have subs that help me become THAT, rather than have subs that simply make people PERCEIVE me as alpha.

IMO, pheromones are the same way, and as I saw in sales, good reactioins from mones meant shit as far as follow-through and closing (and may have even hurt the chances of closing).

ION, it's snowing out, the roads are shit to drive on, so I went to the gym.

#BeTheBest

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11-02-2017, 03:21 PM
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RE: SargeMaximus: Blooming to Alpha
About half-way through that book. It's very enlightening. Also re-affirms much of what I knew about sales (like how lowering price in order to sell doesn't create value, and actually depreciates it).

I'm getting all kinds of ideas of how to improve my own sales ability, but I'm also getting ideas on how DMSI can help us users become better "products" to the female consumer.

Just some initial ideas based on where I'm at in my mind currently:

- People want to get a "steal". As in, they want to get a higher valued item that is mistakenly marked down. Think of walking into a tailor shop, finding a $2000 suit marked at $200 by accident. That kind of thing. Demonstrate that our product is worth more than the price being asked.

- We need to know, at least intuitively, what the customer wants to accomplish with our product. This is key, otherwise, how can we deliver?

- Grant Cardone says: " People buy for 2 reasons: 1 to solve a problem, and 2 for love and to feel good"

- If people decide to buy, they are MUCH easier to sell immediately. ("Add ons" i.e. "Would you like fries with that?"). Grant Cardone says "People seem to use this second purchase to justify the first" but he also says to suggest the add-ons only AFTER the first sale is completed/signed.

- In lin e with add-ons, add more value without increasing price whenever possible. So, you don't want to DECREASE price (in our case this could be non-monogamy, casual relationships, whatever is our price for a girl to keep us) but adding value that can't be gotten elsewhere would be good (no idea what this could be with girls. Something that doesn't make us beta but also adds value)

- BIG one (mentioned elsewhere on the forum) is the "hungry/desperate vs. IDGAF mentality"

Grant Cardone (a multimillionaire, all because of his methods) suggests:

"Now is the time to let your customers know you are hungry. It's NOT the time to act like you don't need their business. There is an old saying that tells people to "fake it till you make it" Well, this doesn't apply here! Instead, you want to "act hungry to make sure you don't end up hungry"[...]

No one likes people who act like they are better than others or so important that they don't need your business. Everyone appreciates someone who goes the extra mile and really shows others that he or she wants, needs, and values others' business. You will never create a powerful, solvent, prosperous, and abundant economy with an attitude of arrogance. [...] People who are looking for reasons NOT to do business with you won't tolerate any egotism." - "If you're not first, you're last" page 115.

To that end, perhaps ego balancing and humility would be good additions for DMSI.

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11-02-2017, 06:09 PM
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Finished the book.

I think I read 1 or 2 chapters yesterday, then I told myself I'd finish it today, and I did.

Was good, but now I need to put it into action.

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11-02-2017, 06:38 PM
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(10-28-2017 09:11 PM)SargeMaximus Wrote:  Yeah refresher. I'll give it a few weeks. If externals improve, I'll run AM 6 from stage 1 again. If not, I'll go back on DMSI.

This is mostly just to shake things up and (hopefully) improve my sales performance which has been shit ever since I started DMSI.

That is very interesting. I have been introduced to Shannon's work through DMSI.

I'm not sure that I have reached sexual irresistibility but it did something to me for sure.

Since irresistibility isn't my only goal and I want to change in other aspects, I have been tempted to try out other programs like BASE or AM.

I'm not sure why but Shannon recommended me to stick to DMSI as long as possible.

This is hard. I feel that BASE would be so much what I need now to build my business...

Oh well, I guess what is important is to persist to a single goal until you can put a check beside the program meaning: DONE.

Anyway, all that to say that I find your switch interesting Maximus and I'll be following the results you have by switching to AM.

Good luck!
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11-02-2017, 07:25 PM
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RE: SargeMaximus: Blooming to Alpha
(11-02-2017 06:38 PM)lano1106 Wrote:  
(10-28-2017 09:11 PM)SargeMaximus Wrote:  Yeah refresher. I'll give it a few weeks. If externals improve, I'll run AM 6 from stage 1 again. If not, I'll go back on DMSI.

This is mostly just to shake things up and (hopefully) improve my sales performance which has been shit ever since I started DMSI.

That is very interesting. I have been introduced to Shannon's work through DMSI.

I'm not sure that I have reached sexual irresistibility but it did something to me for sure.

Since irresistibility isn't my only goal and I want to change in other aspects, I have been tempted to try out other programs like BASE or AM.

I'm not sure why but Shannon recommended me to stick to DMSI as long as possible.

This is hard. I feel that BASE would be so much what I need now to build my business...

Oh well, I guess what is important is to persist to a single goal until you can put a check beside the program meaning: DONE.

Anyway, all that to say that I find your switch interesting Maximus and I'll be following the results you have by switching to AM.

Good luck!

Hey lano, thanks for reaching out!

I must say I struggled with "stay on DMSI or switch" for a LONG time. There were so many things to consider i.e. "Is it just resistance?"

But at the end of the day I had to do something to change things.

I'm not sure where you are in creating your business but for me in sales, having 2 solid years under my belt, the sudden shift to NO results was unsettling and undermined my confidence in a huge way.

I got into sales while doing AM, so I thought perhaps I could regain my "magic" by switching back to AM.

The jury is still out on that, but I will say that if not for making changes and testing things out, I'd still be "waiting" for things to improve.

Whereas now I'm more proactive, and much closer to the results I want because of it.

A sub is only as good as the experiences you pump into it, and anyone successful knows that you gotta fail a LOT before you succeed, so you might as well start ASAP.

That's my $0.02

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11-03-2017, 12:23 PM
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Lately people been downright dismissive of me, and I'm much more engaged thasn I used to be. I seriously think working on social skills is making me beta.

So here's the deal, my car battery died today. My landlord was able to get me a cheap one so I went to pick it up. When I get there, I pick it up, and turns out the battery is dead again (it's cold out so the battery dies instantly.)

Anyhow, I told the guy in the store and he was all like "well I dunno man, maybe someone here can help you" (but not him?) I told him I'd figure it out.

As luck would have it, a guy with his sandwich truck had pulled into the parking lot. I went up and said "Hey man, how's it going?" in a cheery/positive voice. He didn't turn around, just kept his back to me. Ok, I thought he maybe didn't hear me. Just then, a guy comes over and talks to the sandwich guy, so I'm waiting. The guy leaves, then I'm like

Me: "Hi, do you sell coffee?" and the guy gives me a long story

Him: "No, don't sell coffee. We used to but we found that most guys just go to XYZ Big Coffee Franchise so we stopped making it. The cream would go sour and we'd have to re-do the coffee too often, it just wasn't worth it."

Me: "Makes sense. How long you been doing this for then?"

Him: 23 years

Me: Wow, that's impressive. Ok, so no coffee *I look back into the truck* ok, well I'll take 4 gatorades if you can help me with something

Him: What?

Me: My car battery died, I just need a boost

Him: I can't help you

Me: No it's just over there (the car was literally 5 feet away from his truck, he just had to drive maybe 5 feet to get in position) and I have booster cables and everything

Him: I CAN'T HELP YOU *he asserted*, check in there, they will *points to the building next door*

Me: Fair enough, take care *I leave*

I did end up getting help from that place but what was with the guy? I only bring this up because I been getting this kind of blatant disrespect a lot lately, bordering on hatred from other people.

I also ended up getting my coffee (4 actually for my landlord and guys who helped me boost my car) and the people at the mcdonalds were also disrespectful and angry. Even though I made an effort to make them feel appreciated.

When I came back and brang coffee for my landlord and his friends, they invited me to stay and we all ate some food they were making on a stove in the garage.

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