02-08-2018, 09:12 PM
Lol, I think you're mixing what I'm saying up.
I used validation as an example.
"Women are hardwired to chase men that's not a paradigm that's just nature. Your job is to change your mentality from chaser to a man worthy of being chased."
That's not the paradigm I was referring to. I was referring to PUA. If you were to do what he describes in his video without being a man at your core, it'd be the same as looking at a tree and imitating the leafs. Which is what many alpha wannabe's do.
Just look at the top comments on his video:
"hey Alpha I actually flaked on a girl after I agreed to meet up with her. The thing is I didn't call or text her to let her know that I would not make it and did not text or call her at all in the days after. Three days later after I guess she couldn't take it anymore, she text me and said what's up. After flirting with her she came out and ask why I didn't make it. I told her I was caught up in some business. She replied...("and three days later you are just telling me this?") I chuckled to myself. We talked and flirted some more and she STILL agreed to meet up again so that we can fuck lmao! TRUE STORY."
"Women are children. point blank. which is y u should never get in an argument with a women even if she is truly wrong like alpha said . u wouldn't get mad or yell at a child would u knowing their too young to understand?"
If you're interested in attracting high quality women, flaking on them and treating them like children isn't the right way to go about it. Any woman with high self esteem would be turned off by this and look else where.
These guys who follow these principles will start attracting women but inevitably when they want higher quality women, only the ones smart enough to remove these limiting ideas will advance. The rest will just continue to do "what works". That's the paradigm I was referring to.
Which is why I love Daredevil's post. David Deida teaches men how to be men at their core. He's not adding in anything new, rather getting them to rediscover who they are at their core.
I hope that clears things up.
I used validation as an example.
"Women are hardwired to chase men that's not a paradigm that's just nature. Your job is to change your mentality from chaser to a man worthy of being chased."
That's not the paradigm I was referring to. I was referring to PUA. If you were to do what he describes in his video without being a man at your core, it'd be the same as looking at a tree and imitating the leafs. Which is what many alpha wannabe's do.
Just look at the top comments on his video:
"hey Alpha I actually flaked on a girl after I agreed to meet up with her. The thing is I didn't call or text her to let her know that I would not make it and did not text or call her at all in the days after. Three days later after I guess she couldn't take it anymore, she text me and said what's up. After flirting with her she came out and ask why I didn't make it. I told her I was caught up in some business. She replied...("and three days later you are just telling me this?") I chuckled to myself. We talked and flirted some more and she STILL agreed to meet up again so that we can fuck lmao! TRUE STORY."
"Women are children. point blank. which is y u should never get in an argument with a women even if she is truly wrong like alpha said . u wouldn't get mad or yell at a child would u knowing their too young to understand?"
If you're interested in attracting high quality women, flaking on them and treating them like children isn't the right way to go about it. Any woman with high self esteem would be turned off by this and look else where.
These guys who follow these principles will start attracting women but inevitably when they want higher quality women, only the ones smart enough to remove these limiting ideas will advance. The rest will just continue to do "what works". That's the paradigm I was referring to.
Which is why I love Daredevil's post. David Deida teaches men how to be men at their core. He's not adding in anything new, rather getting them to rediscover who they are at their core.
I hope that clears things up.