02-20-2012, 06:11 PM
So yesterday when talking to my ex she mentioned how strong I seemed for the first 4 years of our relationship. The weird thing is I felt the exact opposite of strong.
Even now I feel weak that I can't see what is most probably my daughter because of my fears and insecurities that come up when seeing my ex. To tell you the truth she has become one of my main motivations to working towards becoming a emotionally healthy male. It very much saddens me that I can't see her and I know its been hard for her as well she has been crying for me at night and yesterday when I saw her she called me her best friend. I also feel guilt around the fact that I left her.
Anyway one question I was thinking about adding in mirror affirmations but wanted to check that they wouldn't conflict with the subs
Was going to add in
* I'm OK
* I'm OK being alone
* I love myself
* I love women
* Women love me
Even now I feel weak that I can't see what is most probably my daughter because of my fears and insecurities that come up when seeing my ex. To tell you the truth she has become one of my main motivations to working towards becoming a emotionally healthy male. It very much saddens me that I can't see her and I know its been hard for her as well she has been crying for me at night and yesterday when I saw her she called me her best friend. I also feel guilt around the fact that I left her.
Anyway one question I was thinking about adding in mirror affirmations but wanted to check that they wouldn't conflict with the subs
Was going to add in
* I'm OK
* I'm OK being alone
* I love myself
* I love women
* Women love me
The only person in life that can ever hold you back is yourself. So get out of your own way and start living the life you always dreamed of
