MLS 5.5

[DarkPlouf]

Alright, since you asked a genuine question, I'll give you a genuine answer.

Thank you !

But, before I give you that answer, let me ask you a few genuine questions. Who is Plouf as a man? What makes you who you are?

Plouf is a man looking to be the best version of himself so one day he can say to life "Now I'm the one fucking you, bitch"

What kind of sex do you think you'll like?

The kind of sex where I'm comfortable giving and where I know she deserves to get pleasure from me. That's what I feel I'd like.

Are you, and ask yourself this honestly, a relationship type of guy or would you prefer to be a free agent when it comes to women?

I'm not a relationship guy at all. I don't picture myself getting in a committed relationship anytime soon.
I don't want to emotionally depend on someone.
Now, I'm not looking to be a PUA either. I'm simply looking to be a man who is able to get the women he wants.

Would you have any problems sleeping around with different women?

No, as long as they aren't looking for something serious either.

Would you care that after a while you'll end up hurting someone along the way?

Yes, just like I wouldn't want to be hurt too.

Are you the kind of guy who loves the pursuit or do you prefer just the close?

I prefer the close. I hate seduction games and all the PUA shits. This is something that isn't natural to me so that's not my thing.

Would you prefer rough sex, or something more Vanilla, or would you want to go into a dom/sub type of experience?

I want to go through all of them. Thought I don't think my ego would allow me a submissive type of sex. But with someone I trust I think I may enjoy it.

I don't know if I was supposed to answer that here or ponder them later but the answers come easily to me and so I decided to post them anyway. I think I already have an idea of what I want, and what I don't want.

And, if you're really interested in understanding your sexuality, read those three books. The second book, The Dark Room is one of the darkest, depressing and brutal books on sexuality and society. I'd get 20 pages into the book and want to slit my wrists (figuratively, not literally), because it was so depressing.

Yes, I planned to give them a shot.

Get through that process first, and then you'll understand how knowing your sexuality magically attracts women.

I'm very skeptical but I'm open to it so let's see.

At the end of the day, I don't think a routine is what will get you laid. What gets you laid is knowing who you are and what you want. Women say that's confidence. I don't think it is though. It's more of a self directive.

I'm thinking hard about that sentence, looking at it from many different views, even abstract ones. But I can't get to understand nor agree that it is as simple as that. I'm not trying to argue or debate, just saying.

How many times have you stepped to a girl and halfway through lost focus of what you wanted?

To be honest, never. I always knew what I wanted and why, when I got interested in a girl. Now that I think about it, I never pursued a girl by simple whim. Something about them got me hooked.

I've given you enough to start with. You can either follow through on what I have laid out in this post, or you don't.

That's up to you. I won't elaborate any further past this point. The rest of it is just like Jazz. You'll either feel it, or you won't.

Figured as much.

Thanks for answering, I'll read these books and maybe I'll learn something interesting. Thought I'm very skeptical about things being as easy as you describe them.