(10-03-2017, 05:12 AM)Plouf Wrote: So, you're saying women magickally started to seduce you once you focused on your inner sexuality.
But how does that exactly work ? This is a genuine question as I don't see what you exactly did, or how knowing your own sexuality helped you.
Alright, since you asked a genuine question, I'll give you a genuine answer.
But, before I give you that answer, let me ask you a few genuine questions. Who is Plouf as a man? What makes you who you are? What kind of sex do you think you'll like? Are you, and ask yourself this honestly, a relationship type of guy or would you prefer to be a free agent when it comes to women? Would you have any problems sleeping around with different women? Would you care that after a while you'll end up hurting someone along the way? Are you the kind of guy who loves the pursuit or do you prefer just the close?
Spend some time and honestly go through that list and measure yourself on that. Would you prefer rough sex, or something more Vanilla, or would you want to go into a dom/sub type of experience?
And, if you're really interested in understanding your sexuality, read those three books. The second book, The Dark Room is one of the darkest, depressing and brutal books on sexuality and society. I'd get 20 pages into the book and want to slit my wrists (figuratively, not literally), because it was so depressing.
Actually, one more book is The Woman of the Dunes by Kobo Abe.
Get through that process first, and then you'll understand how knowing your sexuality magically attracts women.
You can't understand physics if you don't get the fundamentals down. It's the same about sex. Picking up women is just a set of actions. After reading The Game, one thing that became apparent, and this is probably true for most pickup artists and why the success doesn't always translate to their students, is because throughout the process of trying to get a date, these guys figured out who they are and are not as sexual beings. Which is why, they magically started getting laid. A lot.
At the end of the day, I don't think a routine is what will get you laid. What gets you laid is knowing who you are and what you want. Women say that's confidence. I don't think it is though. It's more of a self directive.
Most people, truthfully, don't know what they want. How many times have you stepped to a girl and halfway through lost focus of what you wanted?
Did you want to just approach her, did you want to have a makeout session, number close, or did you just want straight sex?
I've given you enough to start with. You can either follow through on what I have laid out in this post, or you don't.
That's up to you. I won't elaborate any further past this point. The rest of it is just like Jazz. You'll either feel it, or you won't.
