02-04-2012, 11:14 AM
Stage 6 - Day 30,
So... this roller coaster is going to end soon.
I got a new part-time job as a street marketer and it gives me opportunity to talk to a lot of people all the time. I've done it two days (a week in between). My strengths are I am charming and good-looking and I have a good body-language. My weaknesses are not being 100% confident in my product and to be creative in the moment so people get curious and interested and wants it.
I had a evaluation with my captain and the CEO today about my "game" in this field of selling for "Save The Children" my CEO told me that I got a lot of potential but I'm not using it.
When I listen to people (coaches or someone who I directly want to learn from) they always tell me that I got SO much potential but I ain't using it. Sometimes even friends tells me.. dude.. you should be like surrounded by women everywhere you go.. because thats what they think of me...
Now I think I am in this "limbo", realistically seen. Also I tend to think subconsciously (have doubts) when I am opening people all the time.
Something like;
Being open, warm, smily, less focused and not feeling 100% confident because you are showing so much and also because you are not used to being that (feels a bit fake) = What I do at the moment..
Versus; Being focused, still, smirk / little smile and feeling 100% confident because you are feeling like a sexy motherfucker who is worthy = What I was thinking of doing.
What do you think I could possibly do to better myself in the best way with this?
Also.. is there a subliminal which can improve your "seller, instincts?"
I mean, essentially we are all selling ourselves almost all the time but it's with all the bullshit and crap out there that have confused my way of thinking. Of being myself, me, who I really am...
- LM
So... this roller coaster is going to end soon.
I got a new part-time job as a street marketer and it gives me opportunity to talk to a lot of people all the time. I've done it two days (a week in between). My strengths are I am charming and good-looking and I have a good body-language. My weaknesses are not being 100% confident in my product and to be creative in the moment so people get curious and interested and wants it.
I had a evaluation with my captain and the CEO today about my "game" in this field of selling for "Save The Children" my CEO told me that I got a lot of potential but I'm not using it.
When I listen to people (coaches or someone who I directly want to learn from) they always tell me that I got SO much potential but I ain't using it. Sometimes even friends tells me.. dude.. you should be like surrounded by women everywhere you go.. because thats what they think of me...
Now I think I am in this "limbo", realistically seen. Also I tend to think subconsciously (have doubts) when I am opening people all the time.
Something like;
Being open, warm, smily, less focused and not feeling 100% confident because you are showing so much and also because you are not used to being that (feels a bit fake) = What I do at the moment..
Versus; Being focused, still, smirk / little smile and feeling 100% confident because you are feeling like a sexy motherfucker who is worthy = What I was thinking of doing.
What do you think I could possibly do to better myself in the best way with this?
Also.. is there a subliminal which can improve your "seller, instincts?"
I mean, essentially we are all selling ourselves almost all the time but it's with all the bullshit and crap out there that have confused my way of thinking. Of being myself, me, who I really am...
- LM
1. Do whatever you want.. risk whatever your gut tells you because.. you know you have good intentions.
2. Pressure forms the man.
3. Clarity gives space for better decisions.
