01-15-2012, 08:12 AM
(This post was last modified: 01-15-2012, 08:14 AM by LionMonkey.)
(01-14-2012, 04:41 PM)Shannon Wrote: You've been pegged a nice guy, and are now in the friend zone. That's what I think.
I disagree.
She has only known me for a very short amount of time in person. Also the way I read behind the lines, (out of this situation) is that she's not sure about me yet because we've spent very little time together and we don't know each other.
I think she told me that to not seem easy and to let me know that she wants to get to know me and see if I am compatible with her.
So I played along;
Me: "It would make me wonder if you didn't have someone you were seeing :-) Friday it is!"
Her: "Can we make it, to change to Saturday sweetie, I have work Saturday morning so Friday would be a bit sad"
Me: "Yes it would. Actually I also have a job-interview Saturday morning, so it fits perfectly :-)"
Her: "Super"
Her: "What are you doing?"
Me: "Just came home from some training. Am going to take a warm, cozy shower! You?"
Her: "Sounds nice actually I am about to drive to training"
Me: "What training?"
Me: "Well, good training :-)"
Her: "Cheerleading"
Me: "xyz, I like it! :-)"
I can only present my best self when we are together and she can either take it or leave it. I didn't say I would be non-sexual ;-)
I think I am doing pretty well. I've never really liked texting and most of the times I am coming off as too intrusive but it seems like that has changed.
I wonder if it's AM that is steering me to feel more deserving of everything :-)
1. Do whatever you want.. risk whatever your gut tells you because.. you know you have good intentions.
2. Pressure forms the man.
3. Clarity gives space for better decisions.