01-15-2012, 08:10 AM
(01-15-2012, 02:15 AM)seabiscuit Wrote:(01-14-2012, 04:41 PM)Shannon Wrote: You've been pegged a nice guy, and are now in the friend zone. That's what I think.
@Shannon, supposing this also happened to me, will the sub FYPFWB be effective to use on her? or can I adapt her mindset?, meaning I'll decide to put her on the friend zone and every time we go out and chill together, she'll be my social proof to attract hotter girls in the venue.
@LionMonkey, Good Luck to you man.
As far as I know, there are only two things you can do in this situation. Give up and walk away... I would say completely... or you can jump to full on direct aggressive sexual mode and try to de-rail her "Friend Zone" mindset.
The latter must usually be done very soon after you realize she has put you in the friend zone, unless she has an emotionally based personality core, in which case it is still possible to change her mind at any time as long as you do the right things. It's most likely to fail, and can blow up in your face quite spectacularly, but it's about the only thing that can "save the ship" at that point.
Most women have a very short "window of opportunity" for saving the ship once they've put you in the friend zone, after which it would require some pretty drastic actions to get her to change her mind. Stuff you don't want to be doing.
If she is of an emotional core personality, you can change her mind at any time as long as you are persistent and appeal to her emotions or her lizard brain consistently enough and long enough.
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The scientist has a question to find an answer for. The pseudo-scientist has an answer to find a question for. ~ "Failure is the path of least persistence." - Chinese Fortune Cookie ~ Logic left. Emotion right. But thinking, straight ahead. ~ Sperate supra omnia in valorem. (The value of trust is above all else.) ~ Meowsomeness!