12-17-2011, 11:08 PM
Ouch.
2 nights ago, I met a gorgeous girl in a bar I've never been to before and left some friends for her because she was amazing. We moved to a place and she was now sitting down with me. I tried to kiss her after 5 minutes, which she neglected and said, "careful what you do", which I replied with, "I have no idea what I am doing" haha...
She showed every sign that she liked me (grabbing my hand and squeezing it, holding eye contact, hitting me, laughing) and at a point her friends tell her that they are moving on. She was hesitant but she then decided to go with them and asked me to come and took my hand and squeezed it.
I was hesitant too but thought she wants me, let's do it. My friends are going home anyways.
Standing there, I was waiting for her and her friends (10 or so) to get their jackets/coats on. I tell her that I know no one in the group, only you.. and I'm not so sure about it, which she replied; "It's okay.. I'll be with you" smiling knowingly..
She takes my hand and we move to the entrance and she says, "Where is Peter?" and slips my hand. I stay there for 3 minutes looking around. Lots of people there. Suddenly I see her heavily making out with a dude.
It stung.. My friends were fortunately not gone yet and I left with them.
Lesson to myself; be sure that she really likes you. kiss her before going somewhere else, where there are other people she knows.
2 nights ago, I met a gorgeous girl in a bar I've never been to before and left some friends for her because she was amazing. We moved to a place and she was now sitting down with me. I tried to kiss her after 5 minutes, which she neglected and said, "careful what you do", which I replied with, "I have no idea what I am doing" haha...
She showed every sign that she liked me (grabbing my hand and squeezing it, holding eye contact, hitting me, laughing) and at a point her friends tell her that they are moving on. She was hesitant but she then decided to go with them and asked me to come and took my hand and squeezed it.
I was hesitant too but thought she wants me, let's do it. My friends are going home anyways.
Standing there, I was waiting for her and her friends (10 or so) to get their jackets/coats on. I tell her that I know no one in the group, only you.. and I'm not so sure about it, which she replied; "It's okay.. I'll be with you" smiling knowingly..
She takes my hand and we move to the entrance and she says, "Where is Peter?" and slips my hand. I stay there for 3 minutes looking around. Lots of people there. Suddenly I see her heavily making out with a dude.
It stung.. My friends were fortunately not gone yet and I left with them.
Lesson to myself; be sure that she really likes you. kiss her before going somewhere else, where there are other people she knows.
1. Do whatever you want.. risk whatever your gut tells you because.. you know you have good intentions.
2. Pressure forms the man.
3. Clarity gives space for better decisions.