Lion... hey man,
Hang in there. Alpha is clearing out the garbage...but you're still conveying that you have too much care towards things happening with this girl. Next time, don't ask her a specific day. Give her two chooses. And make sure they are spread out. So... "I'll be free Tuesday and Thursday"... You're a busy Alpha
You also told her to contact you via phone. That's also pushing things to happen and you're basically saying "I'm going to give you my number, I want you to take it and pursue me". That's not how you convey such a thing. Instead it's more of a "I don't give a crap" mentality...if you want to be pursued. "Here's my number, give me a call if you want".
You shouldn't have stayed and conversed with her if you don't want friendship...you should have cut it off, walked away, and "NEXTED" her. But...you're just in the beginning of this transformation, in a few more months you'll understand all this crap like the back of your hand.
In all honesty, during Alpha I had a harder time getting women because I was coming across with hidden agendas of one night stands. I realized all of my faults when I get into Sex Magnet. Now I hardly give a crap about any of that and make the women wait. But I believe these 'hidden agendas' and neediness for sex also keep you from experiencing true connections.
Ryan
Hang in there. Alpha is clearing out the garbage...but you're still conveying that you have too much care towards things happening with this girl. Next time, don't ask her a specific day. Give her two chooses. And make sure they are spread out. So... "I'll be free Tuesday and Thursday"... You're a busy Alpha
You also told her to contact you via phone. That's also pushing things to happen and you're basically saying "I'm going to give you my number, I want you to take it and pursue me". That's not how you convey such a thing. Instead it's more of a "I don't give a crap" mentality...if you want to be pursued. "Here's my number, give me a call if you want".
You shouldn't have stayed and conversed with her if you don't want friendship...you should have cut it off, walked away, and "NEXTED" her. But...you're just in the beginning of this transformation, in a few more months you'll understand all this crap like the back of your hand.
In all honesty, during Alpha I had a harder time getting women because I was coming across with hidden agendas of one night stands. I realized all of my faults when I get into Sex Magnet. Now I hardly give a crap about any of that and make the women wait. But I believe these 'hidden agendas' and neediness for sex also keep you from experiencing true connections.
Ryan
