08-06-2011, 09:27 PM
Wow.. it's insane.
I felt blades going through my heart yesterday, when she didn't answer to my last message. She wanted to meet up, but wasn't enthusiastic about it at all.
After I went early to bed, I see much clearer today. You guys are SO right. I was blinded by the hope and the memories I had with her.
I'll leave the girl. Though if she contacts me, I'll give it a shot and my priority will be as it was originally - have it my way, the greatest way, if she doesn't want it that way or play f***ing games again, all I can say is on to the next one...
And Ryan, my situation isn't exactly like yours with the BDD girl. I was too nice to this girl...
I felt blades going through my heart yesterday, when she didn't answer to my last message. She wanted to meet up, but wasn't enthusiastic about it at all.
After I went early to bed, I see much clearer today. You guys are SO right. I was blinded by the hope and the memories I had with her.
I'll leave the girl. Though if she contacts me, I'll give it a shot and my priority will be as it was originally - have it my way, the greatest way, if she doesn't want it that way or play f***ing games again, all I can say is on to the next one...
And Ryan, my situation isn't exactly like yours with the BDD girl. I was too nice to this girl...
1. Do whatever you want.. risk whatever your gut tells you because.. you know you have good intentions.
2. Pressure forms the man.
3. Clarity gives space for better decisions.
