07-03-2011, 04:08 AM
(This post was last modified: 07-03-2011, 04:13 AM by LionMonkey.)
Day 32, Okay.. yesterday was weird!
Last day here in this great city and at daytime I went out to some tea drinking place, just beside the beautiful lake. Seems like girls want me to pay attention to them, like qualifying themselves to me and it seems like they love it.
At night, I headed out with my cousin and ma. We began at a bar but I took to another very international bar by myself in the end.
The place was very crowded and the bartenders ignores you. Naturally I ask somebody beside me about the place and that I'm new and the guy, told me about the bar and about a club I could go to.
Then there's this manager, who sees me and takes care of my order and I got my Mojito in like 3 minutes. The Mojito was not properly blended but the special care was great
I see the guy again and I see he's with some friends. I walk over and talk with him and he introduces me to his friends. We ended up going to different clubs and I got free and cheap drinks.
There was 3 girls and 3 guys and me.
2 boyfriend - girlfriend. 2 singles. or that was what I thought.
I didn't really wanted to destroy or ruin the friendship, so I didn't focus much on who I wanted.
Anyway, it's like the girls WANT me to pay attention to them, so they can feel that they can qualify themselves to me. It's pretty interesting because I don't do a damn. I'm just being a cool, fun, normal guy.
Peoples guesses on my age was like, 17-27. The guys liked me but I could sense they were aware of the interest the girls had.
The night went on and people got pretty drunk and everybody left, except one of the girls, who didn't have a boyfriend.. or so that was what I thought.
We got to the dance-floor and was like f***ing each other with clothes on. Pretty hot.
So we end up leaving together and she showed me a garden?? it was close to her home though.
Suddenly she tells me that she's gonna going to get married soon (she's 27) and I was totally fine with it but I asked her, then why are you here with me and she said, because you are nice. lol. (english is not her first language)
She kept ask me what I wanted and my answer was fun. She tells me I can't go home with her because she knows what's gonna happen if I come home with her.
Honestly, I wanted to come home with her but I really don't want to ruin a marriage either.. so I guess if I have had wanted it more it would happen but the intention wasn't strong enough, so she wasn't sure about it.
- LM
Last day here in this great city and at daytime I went out to some tea drinking place, just beside the beautiful lake. Seems like girls want me to pay attention to them, like qualifying themselves to me and it seems like they love it.
At night, I headed out with my cousin and ma. We began at a bar but I took to another very international bar by myself in the end.
The place was very crowded and the bartenders ignores you. Naturally I ask somebody beside me about the place and that I'm new and the guy, told me about the bar and about a club I could go to.
Then there's this manager, who sees me and takes care of my order and I got my Mojito in like 3 minutes. The Mojito was not properly blended but the special care was great
I see the guy again and I see he's with some friends. I walk over and talk with him and he introduces me to his friends. We ended up going to different clubs and I got free and cheap drinks.
There was 3 girls and 3 guys and me.
2 boyfriend - girlfriend. 2 singles. or that was what I thought.
I didn't really wanted to destroy or ruin the friendship, so I didn't focus much on who I wanted.
Anyway, it's like the girls WANT me to pay attention to them, so they can feel that they can qualify themselves to me. It's pretty interesting because I don't do a damn. I'm just being a cool, fun, normal guy.
Peoples guesses on my age was like, 17-27. The guys liked me but I could sense they were aware of the interest the girls had.
The night went on and people got pretty drunk and everybody left, except one of the girls, who didn't have a boyfriend.. or so that was what I thought.
We got to the dance-floor and was like f***ing each other with clothes on. Pretty hot.
So we end up leaving together and she showed me a garden?? it was close to her home though.
Suddenly she tells me that she's gonna going to get married soon (she's 27) and I was totally fine with it but I asked her, then why are you here with me and she said, because you are nice. lol. (english is not her first language)
She kept ask me what I wanted and my answer was fun. She tells me I can't go home with her because she knows what's gonna happen if I come home with her.
Honestly, I wanted to come home with her but I really don't want to ruin a marriage either.. so I guess if I have had wanted it more it would happen but the intention wasn't strong enough, so she wasn't sure about it.
- LM
1. Do whatever you want.. risk whatever your gut tells you because.. you know you have good intentions.
2. Pressure forms the man.
3. Clarity gives space for better decisions.
