11-17-2018, 07:57 AM
at my gym, there is another AM. A firefighter guy. I don't know but sometimes I was feeling that he was doing small subtle things to assess his superiority over me... You could argue if this was done consciously or not.. but just yesterday, we were 4 guys and at least 8 women in the class. I did start to workout at my pullup bar. I did place my towel and bottle near my spot, I went somewhere else and when I came back the firefighter guy took my place. The beta thing would have been to take my stuff and find another spot. but I told him: Hey this is my bar! Go back to your spot. He did complain a bit but he went away. This is a 'small victory' I did assess myself over another guy that I consider alpha and I have it my way...
