Zen programming?
Anyway, I simply went to the grocery and I had a blast just with interacting with people and I was enjoying myself with how I was interacting with people. It feels silly but why not!
This morning I went to the gym. We were only 2 in the class. Me and another guy my age. We had a blast. Even shared political views to find out that we were pretty much thinking the same on a lot of things.
Next I stopped by at a magician guy home to pick up 2 huge teddy bears for my daughters that he offered to give. I met him as he was hired to entertain patrons in a restaurant I frequent. I appreciate him because he is very dynamic entrepreneur. We even talked about Cialdini books. This did impress me as I don't know many people that knows Cialdini beside people that I interact with on the internet.
Next I have a conflict with one of my neighbor. She agrees to do something few weeks ago. Ask me a favor in the form of a permission to perform some modifications around the shared border of our properties.
It turns out that what she has agreed to do, she didn't do it. She did abuse the permission that I gave her by doing much more than what she said she would do with it (installing a fence). Now the thing that she was supposed to do, I have decided to hire someone to do it but because of the fence that she has installed, the price of task that was supposed to be done by her has now increased because the fence has to be removed and replaced to allow the necessary machinery to enter the backyard.
When I did ask her to cover the extra expense that I consider to be her fault, she refuse to acknowledge her responsibility in the situation, she did lie about the agreement we made by trying to convince me that I did agree to exactly what she did and she accuse me of bad faith and that I see a conspiracy against me where there is none because I shouldn't be upset about the situation. She has threatening me that if I pursuing in that direction, our good relationship could be gone. IOW, the worse feminine manipulative methods but I could see all of them clearly and see the logic phallasies into what she was saying to me!
I did stay calm and I have remained firm and have easily destroyed all her BS arguments one by one. I am kinda happy to have hold ground in my right for respect despite meaning that she would not be in good terms with me anymore.
I'm very happy of the plan B that I got in case that we don't find a solution to our conflict. I'm just going to do half of what was originally planned and pay 100% for it in a way that she won't get the benefit that was initially seeked mutually.
So in the end, it is going to be her loss if she refuse to be reasonable. It is a good feeling to have to know that you hold someone that wanted to take advantage of you by the balls...
Anyway, I simply went to the grocery and I had a blast just with interacting with people and I was enjoying myself with how I was interacting with people. It feels silly but why not!
This morning I went to the gym. We were only 2 in the class. Me and another guy my age. We had a blast. Even shared political views to find out that we were pretty much thinking the same on a lot of things.
Next I stopped by at a magician guy home to pick up 2 huge teddy bears for my daughters that he offered to give. I met him as he was hired to entertain patrons in a restaurant I frequent. I appreciate him because he is very dynamic entrepreneur. We even talked about Cialdini books. This did impress me as I don't know many people that knows Cialdini beside people that I interact with on the internet.
Next I have a conflict with one of my neighbor. She agrees to do something few weeks ago. Ask me a favor in the form of a permission to perform some modifications around the shared border of our properties.
It turns out that what she has agreed to do, she didn't do it. She did abuse the permission that I gave her by doing much more than what she said she would do with it (installing a fence). Now the thing that she was supposed to do, I have decided to hire someone to do it but because of the fence that she has installed, the price of task that was supposed to be done by her has now increased because the fence has to be removed and replaced to allow the necessary machinery to enter the backyard.
When I did ask her to cover the extra expense that I consider to be her fault, she refuse to acknowledge her responsibility in the situation, she did lie about the agreement we made by trying to convince me that I did agree to exactly what she did and she accuse me of bad faith and that I see a conspiracy against me where there is none because I shouldn't be upset about the situation. She has threatening me that if I pursuing in that direction, our good relationship could be gone. IOW, the worse feminine manipulative methods but I could see all of them clearly and see the logic phallasies into what she was saying to me!
I did stay calm and I have remained firm and have easily destroyed all her BS arguments one by one. I am kinda happy to have hold ground in my right for respect despite meaning that she would not be in good terms with me anymore.
I'm very happy of the plan B that I got in case that we don't find a solution to our conflict. I'm just going to do half of what was originally planned and pay 100% for it in a way that she won't get the benefit that was initially seeked mutually.
So in the end, it is going to be her loss if she refuse to be reasonable. It is a good feeling to have to know that you hold someone that wanted to take advantage of you by the balls...
