05-30-2018, 08:46 AM
(05-30-2018, 08:21 AM)Jake2015 Wrote:(05-30-2018, 08:09 AM)Leo1990 Wrote: Part of it would be looks if your not taking care of yourself. Once you do, its not about looks. Being in-shape is baseline. Skills is what makes you go above baseline.
What I am saying is, when you're not in shape, you think its about looks. When you do become in shape, you realize its not from that point on. (But you still need to take care of yourself).
ok that does make sense now, but does that mean therefore that a fat guy, who perhaps isnt in his best shape cannot get the same success as a guy that is in shape? in this case it is about looks right?
but of course if youre in shape the same way a girl in shape will usually out do a girl out of shape then you will always do well?
Actually now a days theyre pushing how hot girls of all shapes and sizes are to boost their self esteem but yet to guys it varies, some love big fat girls, some like small slim girls and rest are in between.
#confusing lol
While not impossible, I think the difficulty is much, much, greater. Some women wont even give you a first glance, let alone a second. Unless your Chris Farley (RIP).
So shaving your head, getting in shape is definitely in your favor. But don't read into this too much. Looking good is what it is about.
Unless you like large obese women, see it from a womans point-of-view.
