02-07-2011, 11:12 PM
So I went to a random house party on Saturday. I still felt apprehensive/uncomfortable and not wanting to really approach anybody, somewhat no different than my days before I discovered subliminals. Is this just a weakness of my character?
I find it difficult to approach people in general. I don't think it was the randomness of the house party, although when I have my own house parties (which are very rare) I do talk to everyone there since it is my place. I was at this party because I am good friends with 2/3rds of the band playing that night. Maybe it is the randomness of the house party. When I think about talking to women, I still have worries about whether or not I sound stupid, or whether or not I appear cool. It's automatic and I'm not really sure how to get rid of it. I have read tons of PUA material, and truth be told I never followed it at all. Just going out there and doing cold approaches definitely will not solve the issue since I just seem to have some fear of doing it already. Is there any advice anyone has to give me on this matter? I feel a little helpless here since this is something that I have yet to solve, even after years of attempting (since i've read lots and lots of pua material).
But on a more positive light, if I were to put my feelings into words, I would say that I feel more energetic somewhat in general with stage 1 of alpha male 2011. When I do my homework, I'm no longer apprehensive, although I still procrastinate heavily. This is something that I definitely need to work on, but like I say when I have work to do and I find myself doing something productive, I feel much better about myself. It's like the sub is egging me on to continually do things which are productive and makes me feel good about myself.
I find it difficult to approach people in general. I don't think it was the randomness of the house party, although when I have my own house parties (which are very rare) I do talk to everyone there since it is my place. I was at this party because I am good friends with 2/3rds of the band playing that night. Maybe it is the randomness of the house party. When I think about talking to women, I still have worries about whether or not I sound stupid, or whether or not I appear cool. It's automatic and I'm not really sure how to get rid of it. I have read tons of PUA material, and truth be told I never followed it at all. Just going out there and doing cold approaches definitely will not solve the issue since I just seem to have some fear of doing it already. Is there any advice anyone has to give me on this matter? I feel a little helpless here since this is something that I have yet to solve, even after years of attempting (since i've read lots and lots of pua material).
But on a more positive light, if I were to put my feelings into words, I would say that I feel more energetic somewhat in general with stage 1 of alpha male 2011. When I do my homework, I'm no longer apprehensive, although I still procrastinate heavily. This is something that I definitely need to work on, but like I say when I have work to do and I find myself doing something productive, I feel much better about myself. It's like the sub is egging me on to continually do things which are productive and makes me feel good about myself.
