01-26-2011, 11:27 AM
What exactly do you mean by off? You've got to be careful not to force things; if you're to eager and expectant to see change then you can actually sent your vibe out of tilt a bit. I mean, if you don't know what your new vibe is and your feeling around to try and get an idea, then the response you get isn't what you expected. It's because, I think, there are incongruence's in what you are conveying. If this is what you mean by off, just relax and behave 'normal'. In Transactional Analysis terms, I think you may be experiencing 'crossed transactions', I've got this before when I was looking for change. I fixed it when I let the change come to me.
“To be normal is the ideal aim of the unsuccessful.” - Carl Jung
