It's all about the alpha male

[ronatello]

If guys would stop acting, collectively, like a bunch of desperate morons, they'd collectively get a lot more of what they want in terms of sex and relationships. Simple supply and demand. Too many males are willing to do anything and put up with anything from women. That's a big part of why I created the Alpha set. You make yourself exclusive and set yourself apart by using it, and attractive women are always going to be interested in the guy who doesn't act like every other predictable idiot they get hit on 1,000 times a day by.

I agree 100%.
And in the forums, I tend to act rather aloof. I may throw out a compliment or remark but I don't go on and on like most. I see some there with post counts in the ten thousands. If they only realize if they would just step back away from the computer and GET OUT and mingle, perhaps they would actually bump into a woman that's *cough* hot (cute).