It's all about the alpha male

[woceyes]

i would say you have 2 things. the first is you moved past just outward appearances with women and follow what attracts you not what society says is attractive. the second is your standards have raised and with that your views of women raise as well for you.

Your Alpha now you don't need to be with a woman, but if you see one you want you can go after it. Don't worry to much I mean really its just your neediness having dissipated after doing the set.

Being a bit nervous is good it makes talking or being around the women you find attractive good and helps you push past that barrier and better yourself. Now i would say your looking for a connection vs straight up attraction.

Hope i can help some Dude. Have fun out there