07-06-2011, 09:51 AM
So I just finished stage 5, will be beginning stage 6 tonight.
Recap of what i believe happened in this stage.
My body language has never been so refined before. Does that make sense? Previous stages i've noticed my body language has alpha signatures so to speak, but now it's just so automatic, and so comfortable.
Any sort of flop in a social situation on my part is now a simple "whoops" or "bad joke on my part, let it pass". I get shit from my friends, but it's all in good fun and i know what i say or do doesn't matter as long as we are all respectful of each other.
I've been feeling, knowing, and being more so with myself lately. I know being social, or even picking up women has nothing to do with those canned lines or routines. As one of my friends who formerly was into PUA (and went to another country and soon realized that PUA frames were the wrong way to look at women), he told me all it is is just "kicking it" with a girl that you are around. To get a feeling with her and see how you two connect. if it doesn't work out it's nothing personal, and this is something i now have been feeling. Not necessarily been practicing yet, but i definitely feel as a part of this.
When it comes to women in general, if i have a chance to hook up with a girl, and believe me these opportunities have been coming up more often than before I've started this program, i often will question whether or not i really want to. As in, doing it for the sake of doing it (quantity) versus doing it because i really feel it. I'm pickier for sure. I must be 100% attracted to a girl and I haven't met someone who fits that yet. Being single is no longer an issue.
Anyway, i believe it's the body language that's changed everything when it comes to others around me responding. We're social beings so it must be that they're reading my body and know I'm comfortable with myself. Oh, and I know what the program description meant when it said you will be annoyed with some of your friends. Some of my friends have been immature and I've been less responsive of them. If they don't shape up I won't be wasting my time with immature behavior.
And a small side note, since AM has been working on body language and voice projection... I recreationally play music and sing. Mostly as a hobby. I've always known that you must support your breath when you sing or else you'll damage your voice. AM with it's louder projection of the voice has helped me learn how to sing with breath support. Pretty cool stuff since I've never taken a voice lesson, although I'm sure i could use them!
Cool stage. I also see why this is called the james bond effect stage. Things internally are very calm. I feel like a silent charismatic person, rather than that eccentric charismatic person if that description makes sense.
Recap of what i believe happened in this stage.
My body language has never been so refined before. Does that make sense? Previous stages i've noticed my body language has alpha signatures so to speak, but now it's just so automatic, and so comfortable.
Any sort of flop in a social situation on my part is now a simple "whoops" or "bad joke on my part, let it pass". I get shit from my friends, but it's all in good fun and i know what i say or do doesn't matter as long as we are all respectful of each other.
I've been feeling, knowing, and being more so with myself lately. I know being social, or even picking up women has nothing to do with those canned lines or routines. As one of my friends who formerly was into PUA (and went to another country and soon realized that PUA frames were the wrong way to look at women), he told me all it is is just "kicking it" with a girl that you are around. To get a feeling with her and see how you two connect. if it doesn't work out it's nothing personal, and this is something i now have been feeling. Not necessarily been practicing yet, but i definitely feel as a part of this.
When it comes to women in general, if i have a chance to hook up with a girl, and believe me these opportunities have been coming up more often than before I've started this program, i often will question whether or not i really want to. As in, doing it for the sake of doing it (quantity) versus doing it because i really feel it. I'm pickier for sure. I must be 100% attracted to a girl and I haven't met someone who fits that yet. Being single is no longer an issue.
Anyway, i believe it's the body language that's changed everything when it comes to others around me responding. We're social beings so it must be that they're reading my body and know I'm comfortable with myself. Oh, and I know what the program description meant when it said you will be annoyed with some of your friends. Some of my friends have been immature and I've been less responsive of them. If they don't shape up I won't be wasting my time with immature behavior.
And a small side note, since AM has been working on body language and voice projection... I recreationally play music and sing. Mostly as a hobby. I've always known that you must support your breath when you sing or else you'll damage your voice. AM with it's louder projection of the voice has helped me learn how to sing with breath support. Pretty cool stuff since I've never taken a voice lesson, although I'm sure i could use them!
Cool stage. I also see why this is called the james bond effect stage. Things internally are very calm. I feel like a silent charismatic person, rather than that eccentric charismatic person if that description makes sense.
