09-27-2017, 03:24 PM
(09-27-2017, 03:12 PM)mat422 Wrote: Seems I've been way too focused on healing and clearing instead of just focusing on goals. My new plan of action is to set goals, targets, intentions, whatever you want to call them and let DMSI work in the background. No more of this trying to get DMSI to work better by digging in and pulling up old wounds or imaginary problems that may just be manifestations of resistance. I'm so capable, we all are, all we have to do is get out of our own damn way and use our minds properly to get what we want. So I'm just taking on a screw it sort of attitude. I'm gonna be confident, get what I want, figure out my life, and have plenty of sex with women and I don't need any excuses or reasons why other than I want it. If I have to fake it until it's genuine so be it. Basically I need to break the old mold, the old identity that I still perceive as more valid or true than this new one. And the best way to do that is to just start living my life like it's already true and stop waiting for proof of it before I discard the old.
This is very inspiring. I think you're right on the money.
I remember once I was walking in a mall and saw 2 girls hanging out. I had all kinds of excuses come into my head as to why I couldn't/shouldn't approach them.
For whatever reason, I asked myself "What would you do if you were already where you wanted to be?"
And I approached them and got them to help me pick out some shirts lol.
It turned out they bailed on me after I asked them to wait for me and I went into the change room to try the clothes on lol. And then I went around the store asking people how the shirts looked, but that thought definitely got me to take action, and the experience got me to realize what to do better the next time.
Hope the same ends up being true for you.
