06-24-2014, 10:05 PM
(06-24-2014, 01:51 PM)brightike Wrote: Stage 6, Day 14
Getting myself out in public more lately. Have gone to an outdoor pool two days in a row. I can tell that I wasn't as vigilant/committed as I should have been back in January when I started. Maybe it's just that I have a ****ton of emotional garbage. I'm still leaning back toward BIABW.... Oh summer short shorts and bikini-tops how I love you. I realize that I don't share a lot of the positives.
I work at a restaurant and I've been told that I need to be more compassionate when telling people what to do. The new girls (that I haven't worked with for 2 or more months aka pre-AM core programming stages) say that it's that I don't "put up with girls whiny ****" I had a girl who I used to be stupid attracted to contact me at 130 am for a booty call. Didn't go (not typical). To then telling her that we had to just be friends because she is a user of people and that I would not help her (I wS the sweep in to save the day nice guy before).
I used to require a boss's approval when I worked a job. Don't care now. If I do a good job the. I know it and I don't need a pat on the head. Some other people may not find me funny, but I think I'm hilarious and people that I hit it off with have a great time with me.
I couldn't get past the intro parts of friendships and now I'm actively building a wide friend base with many different groups in my city.
hey, could you elaborate a bit more about how your conversation with that girl went after you told her, she is a user of people?
I want to know how you handled it and the back and forth exchanges that took place because I was in a similar situation a few years ago and that just turned to crap instead of me just handling it.
