07-17-2017, 12:17 AM
Day 56 (Day 24 of B version)
2 loops DMSI vb Hybrid Trickling Stream
Very interesting and illuminating discussion guys, thank you.
I share Shannon's view on human beings in general, although I do believe she is a very trust worthy person who would not cheat on me, or anybody she was in a relationship with for that matter. In the future she may decide to leave me, but I do not believe she would cheat on me.
Weighing up the pros and cons of staying with her, I've decided that I want to give it a shot with her. I didn't find anybody compatible with me until I was 24 years old - she reached out to me where fear was stopping me from being sexual with women up until that point. For that alone, I am grateful to her - who knows if I would have been able to jump over that hurdle by myself.
We get on so well - I spend near enough 24/7 with her and we have such a good time together. We have our fights every now and again, but they're usually related to her feeling insecure because she thinks she's upset me and worries that I will break up with her. There are very few women in my life I have encountered who I think I could trust to not fall slaves to their sexual desires and cheat if the chance arose - but she's one of them. I know reading this the automatic response is to think "everyone thinks their girl is special", but in this case I believe she is. It is what it is.
Giving it a shot with her for now is beneficial to me because:
-I can see her being "the one" and us lasting together for our lifetimes.
-My life is better with her in it. I haven't met anybody, male or female, I would want to spend every day of my life with other than her.
-There are lots of people who have slept with a number of sexual partners. There aren't many people who find a partner who they love and stay with whilst remaining happy and faithful. I think I would regret throwing this away more than I would regret not having slept with a number of women.
-If she breaks up with me or cheats on me, because I am an attractive man, even if it is as late as my 50s, I will still be an attractive enough man to sleep around.
Essentially, if I have found the love of my life, a woman who loves me and we have the potential to live a fulfilling life together in which we trust and value each other, I think I would be foolish to throw that away.
2 loops DMSI vb Hybrid Trickling Stream
Very interesting and illuminating discussion guys, thank you.
I share Shannon's view on human beings in general, although I do believe she is a very trust worthy person who would not cheat on me, or anybody she was in a relationship with for that matter. In the future she may decide to leave me, but I do not believe she would cheat on me.
Weighing up the pros and cons of staying with her, I've decided that I want to give it a shot with her. I didn't find anybody compatible with me until I was 24 years old - she reached out to me where fear was stopping me from being sexual with women up until that point. For that alone, I am grateful to her - who knows if I would have been able to jump over that hurdle by myself.
We get on so well - I spend near enough 24/7 with her and we have such a good time together. We have our fights every now and again, but they're usually related to her feeling insecure because she thinks she's upset me and worries that I will break up with her. There are very few women in my life I have encountered who I think I could trust to not fall slaves to their sexual desires and cheat if the chance arose - but she's one of them. I know reading this the automatic response is to think "everyone thinks their girl is special", but in this case I believe she is. It is what it is.
Giving it a shot with her for now is beneficial to me because:
-I can see her being "the one" and us lasting together for our lifetimes.
-My life is better with her in it. I haven't met anybody, male or female, I would want to spend every day of my life with other than her.
-There are lots of people who have slept with a number of sexual partners. There aren't many people who find a partner who they love and stay with whilst remaining happy and faithful. I think I would regret throwing this away more than I would regret not having slept with a number of women.
-If she breaks up with me or cheats on me, because I am an attractive man, even if it is as late as my 50s, I will still be an attractive enough man to sleep around.
Essentially, if I have found the love of my life, a woman who loves me and we have the potential to live a fulfilling life together in which we trust and value each other, I think I would be foolish to throw that away.
