08-26-2017, 09:36 AM
Haha, you have the same mindset as I.
Wanting things "handled" with them beforehand so they like you for you. To make sure it is genuine. Unfortunately, I couldn't manage that in time in my case, despite herculean effort. Now, I always have the nagging sense of them wanting me for the wrong reasons (and many make it very obvious to me what they are drawn to which hurts at times), as you fear, indeed. I had terrible issues with women beforehand, and still do in many ways. But I won't derail this thread with that, just basic background in return for what I was given.
Thank you, and I'll be keeping an eye on your progress as well!
Wanting things "handled" with them beforehand so they like you for you. To make sure it is genuine. Unfortunately, I couldn't manage that in time in my case, despite herculean effort. Now, I always have the nagging sense of them wanting me for the wrong reasons (and many make it very obvious to me what they are drawn to which hurts at times), as you fear, indeed. I had terrible issues with women beforehand, and still do in many ways. But I won't derail this thread with that, just basic background in return for what I was given.
Thank you, and I'll be keeping an eye on your progress as well!
