02-08-2017, 08:36 AM
As mentioned, we would need to actually be around you to see what's what, but there are a few things you can do.
Right off, know that the difference between being "creepy" and "mysterious" is a very fine line. If a girl likes a creepy dude he's mysterious, but if she dislikes a mysterious dude he's creepy accept that you'll just sometimes be creepy, but work to overcome it.
Scary has to do with power. If you're very deliberate, or firm, or blunt that is in your face masculinity and powerful. powerful mannerisms are firm and stiff bodied, really intense gaze, a fast and strong hand shake, etc. The power is obvious.
Keep that strength, but soften the edges. Think smooth edged titanium, or a marble sculpture. Very strong, but pleasing to the eyes and not rough it abrasive.
When looking at someone, make your piercing stare lazier. let your eyes droop a bit as if you're a bit sleepy. Like a mob boss, or a fighter who just plain outskills his opponent and is bored. Deep resevoir of power when needed, but not in use currently.
Relax in all postures and positions. Even when things are hectic be relaxed. When your boss is crawling up your ass and he's so far up there it feels like he's about to discover a lost civilization, be chill and smooth and tell him you get to name the discovery.
I don't really like to admit it, but I'm a scary guy also. But it's not bad after you accept it and work with it. If I Focus on someone and get intense people get nervous fast. But those people that see that power come out will also compare to to your almost lazy and smooth exterior when you're not about to wreck someone. That's when you go from being scary to being powerful, as people know when you have to unleash hell it comes quickly.
After getting used to it it's a vibe you carry with you all of the time and even strangers fall in line with it usually.
Right off, know that the difference between being "creepy" and "mysterious" is a very fine line. If a girl likes a creepy dude he's mysterious, but if she dislikes a mysterious dude he's creepy accept that you'll just sometimes be creepy, but work to overcome it.
Scary has to do with power. If you're very deliberate, or firm, or blunt that is in your face masculinity and powerful. powerful mannerisms are firm and stiff bodied, really intense gaze, a fast and strong hand shake, etc. The power is obvious.
Keep that strength, but soften the edges. Think smooth edged titanium, or a marble sculpture. Very strong, but pleasing to the eyes and not rough it abrasive.
When looking at someone, make your piercing stare lazier. let your eyes droop a bit as if you're a bit sleepy. Like a mob boss, or a fighter who just plain outskills his opponent and is bored. Deep resevoir of power when needed, but not in use currently.
Relax in all postures and positions. Even when things are hectic be relaxed. When your boss is crawling up your ass and he's so far up there it feels like he's about to discover a lost civilization, be chill and smooth and tell him you get to name the discovery.
I don't really like to admit it, but I'm a scary guy also. But it's not bad after you accept it and work with it. If I Focus on someone and get intense people get nervous fast. But those people that see that power come out will also compare to to your almost lazy and smooth exterior when you're not about to wreck someone. That's when you go from being scary to being powerful, as people know when you have to unleash hell it comes quickly.
After getting used to it it's a vibe you carry with you all of the time and even strangers fall in line with it usually.
