10-05-2012, 04:05 AM
Roughly 10 more days to go on Overcoming Fear.
The results have been interesting. I have become more and more aware where I feel afraid and was doing certain actions or giving responses emerging from background fear of something.
I have been meditating extensively last few weeks and I feel a very nice balance coming out - A balance of inner peace, where the 'chatter' mind shuts off pretty much. This combined with over come fear makes me feel so powerful at certain times like I own this world. More in the sense that I am very deeply connected to this world or universe and have no fear of any outcome and everything will move smooth as per my understanding or wish. People responses have been a bit different towards me as well - as in they see something special. These 100% confident and fearless euphoria occurrences are short and infrequent but they are definitely there.
I thought I didn't have much social anxiety as I was very much used to put myself in uncomfortable situations and hangout or even have my holiday in different countries completely solo. I was wrong. I have discovered a whole new perspective of having 'no social anxiety'. This is a state where you dont seek any sort of validation, have solid confidence, no or very less fear and things start flowing as 'you' like it.
Recently I had some business to take care of and had to travel to one of the FSU countries. I used to have ample time in my evening so I was going out and socializing at different venues by myself - totally alone. The great thing is I was just mixing into the crowd very well (considering people are not friendly at all in FSU - totally not like USA), maintaining a great social value and building great connections. I was having a blast every night. Great people including some top business men just stepping up to me and befriending me and inviting me to later parties or other venues - of course I roll solo sharply dressed in the venue with a swagger and style - the one which I got solid from going through Alpha Male.
So I have done a lot of solo trips but this time it was different - Before I used to power through uncomfortable situations or anxiety and build the confidence by pushing myself - but this time the anxiety/ fear was not existing or was very weak and it sorts of liberates your mind to focus on the moment you are in. Stopping this chatter in your mind is the most powerful thing you can have.
Exhibiting confidence or fearlessness brings certain confrontation as well. Some 'Macho' men like to toughen it up with you and break your confidence or physically over power you by their size or physical dominance. This started happening to me again - but now I just have to stand still and have a deep stare in their eyes and they back off. This reminds me one of the incidents in my last trip where a girl in a bar out of nowhere jumped at me and started making out and grinding me; later to be rescued and pulled by her group of skinhead male friends. These guys asked me to come outside the club; what for I dont know. And to my surprise I went out without any hesitation to confront them. The result - the guys couldn't do anything, they were weak. I just had to smirk and walk back in.
So overall I would recommend Overcome Fear a definite try run to those who have gone through Alpha Male, Sex Magnet and Women Magnet and feel they still need a little kick to make fall all Alpha Male and S/W Magnet concepts in one place coherently.
Overcome Fear might be a lot powerful for some like Absolute Self Confidence is. As I finish my 32 days, I would update if there can be any improvements - so far I feel my fear was at level 6 out of 10 and now going through Overcome Fear is 4. I hope I am able to completely eliminate it - and that would be amazing.
The results have been interesting. I have become more and more aware where I feel afraid and was doing certain actions or giving responses emerging from background fear of something.
I have been meditating extensively last few weeks and I feel a very nice balance coming out - A balance of inner peace, where the 'chatter' mind shuts off pretty much. This combined with over come fear makes me feel so powerful at certain times like I own this world. More in the sense that I am very deeply connected to this world or universe and have no fear of any outcome and everything will move smooth as per my understanding or wish. People responses have been a bit different towards me as well - as in they see something special. These 100% confident and fearless euphoria occurrences are short and infrequent but they are definitely there.
I thought I didn't have much social anxiety as I was very much used to put myself in uncomfortable situations and hangout or even have my holiday in different countries completely solo. I was wrong. I have discovered a whole new perspective of having 'no social anxiety'. This is a state where you dont seek any sort of validation, have solid confidence, no or very less fear and things start flowing as 'you' like it.
Recently I had some business to take care of and had to travel to one of the FSU countries. I used to have ample time in my evening so I was going out and socializing at different venues by myself - totally alone. The great thing is I was just mixing into the crowd very well (considering people are not friendly at all in FSU - totally not like USA), maintaining a great social value and building great connections. I was having a blast every night. Great people including some top business men just stepping up to me and befriending me and inviting me to later parties or other venues - of course I roll solo sharply dressed in the venue with a swagger and style - the one which I got solid from going through Alpha Male.
So I have done a lot of solo trips but this time it was different - Before I used to power through uncomfortable situations or anxiety and build the confidence by pushing myself - but this time the anxiety/ fear was not existing or was very weak and it sorts of liberates your mind to focus on the moment you are in. Stopping this chatter in your mind is the most powerful thing you can have.
Exhibiting confidence or fearlessness brings certain confrontation as well. Some 'Macho' men like to toughen it up with you and break your confidence or physically over power you by their size or physical dominance. This started happening to me again - but now I just have to stand still and have a deep stare in their eyes and they back off. This reminds me one of the incidents in my last trip where a girl in a bar out of nowhere jumped at me and started making out and grinding me; later to be rescued and pulled by her group of skinhead male friends. These guys asked me to come outside the club; what for I dont know. And to my surprise I went out without any hesitation to confront them. The result - the guys couldn't do anything, they were weak. I just had to smirk and walk back in.
So overall I would recommend Overcome Fear a definite try run to those who have gone through Alpha Male, Sex Magnet and Women Magnet and feel they still need a little kick to make fall all Alpha Male and S/W Magnet concepts in one place coherently.
Overcome Fear might be a lot powerful for some like Absolute Self Confidence is. As I finish my 32 days, I would update if there can be any improvements - so far I feel my fear was at level 6 out of 10 and now going through Overcome Fear is 4. I hope I am able to completely eliminate it - and that would be amazing.
