(12-04-2016, 11:35 PM)Shannon Wrote: Only question is... is this another one of those things that, if you share it, will be "adapted to" and stop working?
Possible but highly improbable. In any closed system, if enough variables change, a market correction will occur. Thing is, I don't think enough men will adopt the strategies and mindset to cause that paradigm shift. Many men won't even be able to deal with the nature of what I'm doing, which is essentially acknowledging that all human interaction, no matter how minute, is of a transactional nature. And once you realize the role you play in that transaction, you have the upper hand because you can manipulate the variables.
That's the beauty of how I pull it off. It relies on a deep understanding of dating dynamics and dating economics.
For example: All you guys with long ass, long-winded profiles? Cut that shit down to less than 200 words -- 150 if you can pull it off, and watch how your conversion rate increases.
Why? Avoiding all the big economic terms and stating it simple: For every message you receive, a woman receives roughly 15. Think about that. On a given day, a woman receives around 100 messages from potential suitors. Dick is literally being thrown at her at ALL times. I tell my female friends to basically add "and would you like some dick with that" at the end of every sentence a man says to her.
That being said, with that many messages, she's naturally going to switch to a mindset to find anything she can to disqualify you. It's the only way she can cope with the insane amount of offers she's getting. She's NOT LOOKING TO FIND REASONS TO SAY YES. She's looking for A REASON [emphasis on SINGLE REASON] to say NO. That being said, the longer your profile, the more chances you have to fuck up and say something that'll get you disqualified. The more boring you appear, because your entire life story is on your profile. The more validation seeking you appear.
I was very much shocked at how conversions went up after trimming my profile down to one solid, well shot picture and a highly crafted profile. Here's an easy way to do it:
Choose four words that define you. Mine were: "Confident, Calm, Cocky and Contemplative." Then, your single, well shot profile picture and EVERY SINGLE SENTENCE on your profile should oooooze with that essence. Once it converts, every interaction with her should oooooze that essence.
DON'T LIE! You don't want her to get buyer's remorse. Don't say you're a Tony Stark when you're actually a Steve Rogers, know'msayin'?
The next part? Pre-qualify the fuck out of your women and put a call to action. There's a section that says, "You Should Message Me If..." on OkCupid.
I'm still playing around with this section, but my highest converting response said:
* Be interesting. (Note: Every chick thinks they're interesting. This is a marketing tactic called priming the pump. You've seen it before. A commercial comes on: "Do you want more money?!" WTF is gonna say no?)
* Be a good kisser. (Prequalification subtext: I'm not looking for fucking "friends." I want a lover. I'm going to try and fuck you.)
* You're ready and willing to grab a drink -- I'm really protective of my time. (No, I'm not "getting to know you" over text. Like I'm gonna invest hours into this online conversation while you're fucking the guys who just ask you out)
* Love all women, but women of color are particularly welcome. (It's rare that black women are targeted by a high-value black man these days, so this line really reels them in. White guys with a taste for dark meat? You'll slay with this line.)
* Press the like button and I'll message you. (Women are so terrified of rejection that they won't message you. Too afraid of not receiving a response. But, there's no investment in pressing the like button, AMIRITE? OMG, AMIRITE?!?!?! Yeah, I'm right. This single addition will send your conversions into overdrive. Cool thing is, you already know if a woman's kinda into you because she hit the like button. My strategy? I only EVER message women that hit the like button, and I get about 2-3 likes a day.)
OMG CHAOS U LYIN'!!! This is from the last 7 days:
So, why haven't I gone through and cleared those out? Well... here's the downside. On OkCupid, you gotta pay for A-List to see your likes. And that shit's like 19.99 a month.
UNLESS!!!!!
You start getting likes. Every two weeks or so, if you're getting likes, OkCupid will send you a coupon to get a month for $9.99. So... I always get the 9.99 month. Then cancel before it renews. And then wait for the $9.99 again. Unfortunately, I wasn't paying attention to my e-mail last week and missed the damn thing. EDIT: Because you have to accept the offer for 9.99 on THAT DAY. It's another marketing tactic called scarcity.
Anyway.
That's part of the strategy. I skipped most of the psychological, socioeconomic stuff for brevity, but I'd be impressed with anyone that could explain how and why that stuff works so well.