I was reminded recently that the ability to handle tension is very important in social situations and with women especially, as described HERE. So something along the lines of reframing tension from frigtening to exiting, from something nervously avoided to something exiting and desirelable, could also fit in with this sub(?).
Releasing the need to reduce (sexual) tension (while still being sociable) by:
- talking (too much)
- laughing (too much)
- reacting
- fidgeting
- bailing her out
- supplicating facial expressions
"...Your whole life you have been doing things to lessen tension. You have always tried to make everybody else around you feel more comfortable at your own expense. You do this with your friends, your co-workers and especially the women you like. When things get tense or awkward you're the big clown making everyone laugh and feel comfortable. ... This is bad because doing things to help women feel more comfortable with the sexual tension will be viewed by her as supplication. A woman is never going to be attracted to a man that can handle LESS sexual tension than she can. ..."
And then there's also the 2 lines from WM2.0 that I though might fit in:
"Be genuinely interested in discovering new things, have genuine interest in others, and therefore naturally and automatically enjoy meeting, getting to know and spending time with others."
"Achieve a natural state in which your expectations are zero and you have only the intent of laughing, having fun with and conversing with people you dont yet know, without neediness or agenda."
Releasing the need to reduce (sexual) tension (while still being sociable) by:
- talking (too much)
- laughing (too much)
- reacting
- fidgeting
- bailing her out
- supplicating facial expressions
"...Your whole life you have been doing things to lessen tension. You have always tried to make everybody else around you feel more comfortable at your own expense. You do this with your friends, your co-workers and especially the women you like. When things get tense or awkward you're the big clown making everyone laugh and feel comfortable. ... This is bad because doing things to help women feel more comfortable with the sexual tension will be viewed by her as supplication. A woman is never going to be attracted to a man that can handle LESS sexual tension than she can. ..."
And then there's also the 2 lines from WM2.0 that I though might fit in:
"Be genuinely interested in discovering new things, have genuine interest in others, and therefore naturally and automatically enjoy meeting, getting to know and spending time with others."
"Achieve a natural state in which your expectations are zero and you have only the intent of laughing, having fun with and conversing with people you dont yet know, without neediness or agenda."
Thoughts, opinions and beliefs subject to change without prior notice.
