08-20-2015, 09:41 AM
So two parts to this post. First I want to talk about gut feelings vs conditioned responses. I'm a believer in following your gut. But sometimes it's hard to discern the two. I've realized in the past when I thought I was following my gut it was really just past conditioning causing me to avoid something. In my last post where I said the subconscious needs to be directed, it has some truth. But the subconscious also knows a great deal about what's right for you. Intuition is a powerful thing and I'm attempting to calibrate it more after years of ignoring it in favor of doing what was "right".
Second. I was reading Reality Transurfing and the subject of importance popped up. Basically when you apply too much importance to something, balanced forces cause the opposite reaction. It got me thinking about the mixed results from everyone in this forum. From my observation it seems like the individuals who listen to the subs with an attitude of "We'll see what happens" have greater results. As compared to those who have more invested in the sub working. Me included. It seems the key to achieving results is to detach from the importance of the outcome and allow it to happen instead of coming from a place of forcing it to happen.
More specifically the idea of resistance. I notice a lot of people here deal with that. I'm finding that decreasing the importance you place on resistance makes it fade away. So when it pops up, instead of focusing on how to remove it, how much it sucks, how it's holding you back, etc. just let go and allow the subliminal to work. The more you focus on it, the more it will grow, trust me on this one. If you just let go and decrease your focus, it will fade away in time. But I want to emphasize this isn't about suppressing it or avoiding it, it's about giving it less focus. You allow it to be there, but it no longer holds as much importance as it once did.
I don't know how valid the authors theory on balanced forces are, but it makes sense. Give it a try.
Second. I was reading Reality Transurfing and the subject of importance popped up. Basically when you apply too much importance to something, balanced forces cause the opposite reaction. It got me thinking about the mixed results from everyone in this forum. From my observation it seems like the individuals who listen to the subs with an attitude of "We'll see what happens" have greater results. As compared to those who have more invested in the sub working. Me included. It seems the key to achieving results is to detach from the importance of the outcome and allow it to happen instead of coming from a place of forcing it to happen.
More specifically the idea of resistance. I notice a lot of people here deal with that. I'm finding that decreasing the importance you place on resistance makes it fade away. So when it pops up, instead of focusing on how to remove it, how much it sucks, how it's holding you back, etc. just let go and allow the subliminal to work. The more you focus on it, the more it will grow, trust me on this one. If you just let go and decrease your focus, it will fade away in time. But I want to emphasize this isn't about suppressing it or avoiding it, it's about giving it less focus. You allow it to be there, but it no longer holds as much importance as it once did.
I don't know how valid the authors theory on balanced forces are, but it makes sense. Give it a try.
