Do looks and status matter ?

[Leo1990]

Ok well you get what I was hinting at: dress like however the f*ckbois do in your region. You must have seen some. Copy them.

I burn easily too and have a farmer's tan, but when I DO decide to work on the tan, I'm going to do it slowly, only like 30 mins at a time till my skin gets used to it. Remember: Rome wasn't built in a day. Which also means you might as well work on everything as soon as you can cause it can take a while.

"Get to know" is "friend zone". Don't do that (I learned this the hard way. In truth, women want a f*ck toy they eventually develop feelings for).

Finally, you are absolutely right that looks don't mean shit.

Check out this recent online convo between me and a girl who was the most forward I've ever had. And pay close attention to how I f*cked it up with shitty game:


Me:
You look like trouble

Her:
Hahaha you guessed right

Me:
Takes one to know one what’s up?

Her:
Hopefully your cock

Me:
Yeah but it won’t do you much good over here

Her:
True

Me:
It’s a conundrum

Her:
And it’s really too bad that I’m in [area] on holiday

Me:
That is unfortunate

Her:
Text doesn’t quite cute it

Me:
Lemme guess you want video?

Her:
I was thinking more along the lines of getting in touch when I was back in town

Me:
Thank god, now I don’t think you’re a dude with a fake profile. When are you back?

Her:
Next Monday

Me:
Cool. I’ll come over. Got any more pics so I know for sure you’re legit?

Her:
*sends Safe-for-work pic*

Me:
Not bad

Her:
Thanks

Me:
What’s your number?

[no response]


/\ That should prove 100% that it matters more what you say than what you look like. This girl wanted me because of my looks, I lost her because of my lack of game (I was in a "just be myself" mood that day and look where it got me? Proof positive game matters)


Oh but congrats on the kisses. I've had trouble with kissing myself. Women would literally laugh after I kissed them. Puzzled me. But then I read a PUA article that said when kissing you have to let her lead a bit (as in, you kiss her but leave your mouth open and let her do what she will) and then you mirror what she does. I never did that before so I'ma try it the very next time.

@SargeMaximus What did you do wrong exactly though? She wanted you and you asked for her number and she went cold.

Here's the deal: a woman will not go cold if she's into you.

Therefore, if they go from hot to cold, you DEFINITELY did something wrong.

A PUA guy I know told me what I did wrong but I'd rather not share it. For now just meditate on that fact: If a girl goes from hot to cold YOU DID SOMETHING WRONG.

Remember everyone it's not about getting every girl. It's about getting the girls where there is a mutual attraction. There's not always a case where you've done something wrong. Sometimes it's her situation, sometimes the woman is superficial, sometimes the woman just has different qualities for a guy in mind. It's not your fault every time. Although it is a good thing to have the mindset of "how can I change to better myself and get better results" because it gives you the power.

I would have not said "not bad" on the text message. That response to me is terrible. You could of teased her or given her points then done something to get her to meet.

Also her being so forward with sex was a shit-test. I would have teased for that.