DMSI v2.5

[Shannon]

Shannon,

Another recent phenomenon. I'm noticing more and more that women are doing the "counter defense". They put an object between me and them. Usually, I think that's an indication of needing security, comfort, or protection. Yet these are the same women who will look at me in a dreamy sort of way as they talk with me from behind the counter.

Does the aura need more comfort? Is this another example of the aura being lopsided? I don't know, but I'd appreciate your thoughts because I always worry it's something I'm doing wrong rather than I'm more sexy or they need to "get control" of their intense sexual feelings and so forth.

The defense of placing a physical object between you and herself has one or both of two causes.

It can be useful to hide some part of her body from sight... and it can be useful to prevent physically getting closer.

Let's imagine she realizes she has stiff nippies all of a sudden because you're just too damned sexy, and she wants to fuck. But she is in public and it's inappropriate. She may be embarrassed, so he may try to hide her nippies of obviousness from you by crossing her arms, or standing behind something that blocks your view.

What happens if she's worried that she's so wet that you could see a wet spot? Or worse yet, she begins to smell her own sexual arousal odors and starts worrying that you might also...

A lot of possibilities on that one.

The other one could go one of three ways.

Maybe she doesn't trust herself not to touch you, start something, do something inappropriate, or come on to you. Maybe she doesn't trust you not to. Maybe she doesn't trust herself OR you in that regard!

I can't say for sure which one it would be.