DMSI v2.5

[Steven]

The snarkiness occurs to me when I've found I am around women that feel you are "better" than them. Either they knew you before and are confused by this sudden change in value and lash out due to insecurity. Or, they do it once meeting you. For me, it's very rare, but does sometimes happen.

But either way, I've found it's always an insecurity in them. It's a roundabout compliment if you're positive you've done nothing wrong to them and have made them feel comfortable around you and they still act this way. I "kill them with kindness" to remove it!

Hey Catman! Thank you for taking the time to read and reply! I appreciate your thoughtfulness you present in your posts.

I had not thought about that as the cause for their snarkiness, especially because some of these women looked like the type of hotties who are constantly pursued.

I doubt I did anything wrong. I don't know if I did what I could to make them feel comfortable, but I can say I doubt I did anything to make them uncomfortable.

I also wondered if some of them were being rude as a way to impress me. I'm not sure how to explain that, but some how I wondered. Perhaps trying to lower my status in their eyes.

Thanks for your idea about "killing them with kindness". You're right!